So that when you see you they whisper: "Yes this is the same ..." Therefore, we envy our idols, who are fond of fame. And somehow we skip past the information about how the next famous actress was almost shot by a fanatic or even a dedicated fan ... Even if we take the scale of not a planet, but a small collective, a good reputation turns out to be a heavy burden. First, you are constantly focused on general attention, which does not allow you to relax and be yourself. Secondly, you always need to match the taken bar and the formed image. A step to the right or to the left - and worship is replaced by disappointment. Thirdly, even with constant efforts, fame passes - just from time to time. People are addicted to something else and forget their former favorites. And they instead of calmness experience a bitter resentment ...
Bad name and popularity
Is it possible to try to be popular and envious for someone - is it good or bad for each of us? On the other hand, there is a downside to staying "on the world". It seems to you that if your masterpieces known only to a small circle recognize wide circles, you will certainly get an armful of flowers and a sea of ovations? Alas, you must always be ready for stale tomatoes. And not because you were somewhere imperfect, and even not so much because the people around have very different tastes. It turns out that a person voluntarily becomes a target. At the less developed inhabitant there and then there is a desire to throw in it something. Such comrades call the studio on a talk show, only to say to the celebrities: "And in my opinion, you are mediocrity!" So they feel at your expense bold and independent. This, of course, is more of a problem than yours. But from the unexpectedness, not only the mood, but also the self-esteem can very badly deteriorate.
PS The above does not at all mean that we call for seclusion in a separate cell - and not show up! We just mean that, passionately wanting something, we often see only the ideal image - but not the real consequences of the incarnation. So, until you have received a call from Hollywood, it's time to practice your self-esteem and self-esteem! Glorify at the expense of their own popularity and envy - is it good or bad, do you think?
Of course, this is bad and ugly
Habit to like. There is another side effect of fame. On the object itself, this thing often acts as a drug, creating dependence. And so the "stars", who in each interview sincerely groan, that they are plagued and do not give life by intrusive admirers and intruders of journalists, being in an information vacuum, immediately begin to sour and fall into depression. In fact, they even need to be prevented from passing. Approximately the way residents of megacities complain about noise and crowd, but, having got to a desert provincial town, they feel very uncomfortable and strive for a habitual "hive".
How does this happen? Exaggerated interest in success has several characteristics. Popularity is good or not, because we often can not objectively assess what a person went through and what was lost on the way to triumph. Own ambitious thoughts sometimes dissolve in domestic concerns. But often they come to life again, being carried over to children. Be careful! Another form of proof of one's own importance and popularity can be not achievement of heights, but familiarity with the "circle of the elect." "Professional diseases" ambitious people - heart attacks, ulcers and other stress-related ailments. To avoid them, one must remember that the attractive and popular role of the "master of doom" is just a role.