1. "Thank you, dear, that you want to help me clean up, but I'll do it faster than you ..."
A woman employed in a factory or an institution is difficult to clean the apartment herself. This is a troublesome business, striving to do everything quickly, it is unwise to expend its energy. It is not necessary to reject the help of a man when he wants to somehow relieve you, and especially do not doubt his ability to do it quickly. Dr. Casey says that the day was equally long for both. But a man can think that he does not suit you in some way, and your refusal does not tell him that. It is better to really entrust him with something from your busy endowments, do not stand at his soul, and use the free time for the preparation of dinner. But be sure to thank your man for this desire to help you.
2. "I'm simple, that you managed to fix the leaking faucet."
In no way show your bewilderment when he was able to do something for the house without the help of an invited specialist. Dr. Casey says that your surprise will strike a tangible blow to his self-love. Husbands do not want their wives to doubt their male "versatility." They will be pleased to hear: "You have a beautiful and intelligent, and a jack of all trades. I see that I am very well married. "Your compliments of his versatile masculinity will demonstrate that he is not just a macho in bed for you.
3. "You are the only person with whom I can talk."
A man does not want to be in one person your friend, my mother istra. Do not burden him with the strongest emotional burdens: "Being the only support system for you is a huge pressure on him," says licensed marriage specialist and family doctor KarinGoldstein. For a stronger impact, it's not enough to say that he is your favorite person. Try to assure him that even though you have the opportunity to talk to your mother and friends at any time, he is the best listener. It is pleasant to talk to him. His desire to be useful to play along with your words, that you really appreciate his opinion.
4. "This gift is not in my taste, but I will find an application for it."
Thank him for caring. But do not even try to convey to him even to his mother his last gift - the necklace he has chosen for Dyusyasvyatogo Valentine. A man will simply explode and say that he does not know how to wax. "It will be a slap in the face," says Goldstein. "He will not try to give you anything next time." Admire the generosity of your man and sometimes wear his present. Before the next special case, unobtrusively tell the store what you would like to receive.
5. "I like your flabby stomach and vyalyemuskuly."
But if the husband yesterday heard your enthusiasm for the cubes of the press of Ryan Gosling, he just mixes up in feelings and will not know, to make sure. Dr. Brochet invites you to tell your spouse that he is an ideal partner for you and a caring father of children, and that with him there is no comparison of "pitching" with large muscles, focused solely on himself. This will allow him to understand what is really important to you, that it corresponds to your tastes.
6. "You are the best ..."
A man is good with you in bed, but he does not want to know about your previous partners. You suddenly remember all these guys and start to compare. To masterfully manifest themselves in bed, adhere to the specific sexual experience, recruited with him. Dr. Broch recommends saying that you are pleased when he feels good. The emphasis in relationships is made on the partner, not on general comparisons.