The increased number of late deliveries is associated not so much with the specifics of family life planning as with the success of medicine in the field of reproduction, which allowed women who have been treated for a long time to have the joy of motherhood. And in this regard, late pregnancy, of course, is a miracle that was expected for many years.
Problem
During pregnancy, women in the forty years become hypochondriacal, hypochondriac, often blame themselves for the fact that they have such an unfit organism. Do not abandon their habit of living under untiring medical supervision.
Decision
The most important thing for the health of the baby and mother is calmness and positive emotions. For this, when a woman is pregnant in the age of forty, one must begin to struggle with suspicion, moving from the position of a person who is always asking oneself questions to the category of people who assert something. That is not to be horrified: "Why was I told to lie again, putting my feet on the pillow, probably everything is very bad?", But to state: "It will take 2 weeks to lie down, because it will be better".
It is necessary to shift the entire burden of responsibility for one's health onto the shoulders of doctors, clearly following the prescriptions, after all, this is their job! It's less to wonder about your health and ask more, because the uncertainty and mystery that doctors like to let go of, only increases the sense of anxiety.
Baby born
Problem
Mother's love and pregnancy of a woman at forty are probably the strongest. Finally there was my own child! Here lies the greatest danger for the woman's pregnancy in the forty years and for the baby: the child, of course, own, but not property, not a personal thing! A woman who adores her child, who allows him everything in the world, anticipating all desires, sweeping away obstacles on the way, risks growing an infantile, immature, dependent person.
Decision
Such mother, dreaming of the happiest child in the world, from the first days of his life should learn to separate his desires from the desires of the baby, read the signals that he gives, and respect his requests, even if he is day, week, month old.
Problem
At pregnancy the woman in forty years ceases to notice all around of itself - the husband, friends, throws former hobbies. She runs the risk of feeling emptiness or even being alone.
Decision
A father who leaves the family will not make a child happier. A mother-hen will not become a source of pride for a grown-up child. It is necessary to force yourself to "break away" from the baby.
Problem
Adult women risk "fall in love" with their children, even at the price of their own health.
Decision
A woman needs to find an assistant who will not only take on the basic physical load to care for the child, but will also become a buffer standing on the road of your all-consuming love. The child must realize that, besides him and his mother, there are others. Only then can he grow up happy. And this is the most important thing.
Tip
Give the baby a break ... from you! Paradoxical as it sounds, even an infant has a need for solitude. When he turns away from you, do not go around the cot on the other side and continue to "hoot." Baby just wants to rest! Taking care of the baby will not let you miss it.