One of the main and most significant features in this situation will be the desire to learn about sexuality and get satisfaction in a much earlier age than we are. By the word sex we mean the totality of social, bodily, mental processes and drives, based on satisfaction of sexual desire. But not always a person is ready to fully use this gift, so for sexuality you need to be mentally and socially mature.
Our sexual behavior is affected by biological, social and psychological factors - they are responsible for the main psychological causes of early sexual relations. To biological we include, for example, the level of hormones that regulates our behavior, the development of the body and the primary signs of our sex. The social factors will include the entire environment of the individual, his social environment, the family, the norms of his culture and religion. Psychological factors are the whole mentality of a teenager, his consciousness and feelings, from which the psychological causes of early sexual relations follow.
Adolescence is a very difficult period in the life of every person. This is the time when we open our own self, we make the path from child to adult, we learn this world and find ourselves in it, realize our importance and role. Teenagers, usually, constantly struggle with their prejudices, with the positions of an adult and a child in their head, they look for the right way out of different situations, learn to live. There are various problems, including the problem with self-esteem. In most cases, the self-esteem of adolescents often changes and can jump from high to low. Problems with self-esteem give us one of the psychological causes of early sex.
A teenager can use sex for the sake of self-affirmation, because this way he will become more authoritative among friends, more mature, prove to himself that he is important, open up new opportunities. A person with high self-esteem will be guided by permissiveness, because a person with low self-esteem is easy to manage, and therefore another person will be able to send the addressee to satisfaction without serious difficulties. Their victims can not say "no", refuse an unwanted proposal.
Here, also, the important reason is fear of the unknown, and one of the effective ways to deal with it is to try it on yourself. When, for example, you are afraid of the monster living under the bed in your childhood, you can certainly try to fight against yourself, it is hard to sleep every night, but you can look under the blanket and see that there is no one there and you will immediately feel better . Sexual relations can act as a monster, and the only solution sometimes seems to try it on yourself and make sure that there is nothing terrible in this, to cross the line that you are afraid of.
You can cross the line not only because of such a reason as fear, but also because of interest. Do not forget that in the age of transition begins to develop a very large number of hormones, increases sexual desire, a person is aware of his sexuality and needs to satisfy his desire. Moreover, the theme of sex is becoming less and less hidden and increasingly popular, the media give us excerpts from the formed sexual images, lure into a similar life, ascribe more and more new norms and stereotypes.
From this follows the restructuring of the moral consciousness of the whole society, new canons and rules press on the adolescent's psyche, manipulate him, push him to stereotypical decisions and ready-made, typical forms of behavior. Interest in the surrounding is not a strange fact, which pushes people to take decisive action.
Psychological causes of early sexual relations will also be intertwined and physiological causes, namely: early puberty, its acceleration in adolescents. Previously, the age of hypersexuality is coming, more hormones are produced and interest in the opposite sex is growing. Uncontrolled development leads to early sexual intercourse, yielding to striving and curiosity. In this case, love is often perceived as love, illusions are built that are sooner or later realized and come to an end, and their place for a long time is occupied by mental trauma.
Although in some of the more mature morally, socially and mentally adolescents, the cause of physical relationships can be really love, so we can not rule out this factor, which, however, is rare.
For psychological reasons, it is possible to include a pedagogical factor. This is a reckless, superficial or absent sex education of children. For adolescents, it can be painful to act as sexual permissiveness, indifference to this problem, and a lot of restrictions, severity, abstraction from the topic of sex, the concept in his family about sex as something dirty and unacceptable in general.
Educate a teenager in this area should be right. First, sincerity and openness are very important here. Do not keep silent, blush and translate the conversation to another topic. It is also not necessary to introduce a ban on words of a scientific nature that sexologists use. The completeness and clarity of the explanations will be important, the information is multifaceted and understandable. Discussions on similar topics, discussion of sexuality in a relaxed atmosphere will be very useful. In order for this to happen, we need a stable level of relations and understanding in the family.
However, despite the fact that with each generation the age of the first physical contact decreases, and the teenager is pressured by different stereotypes, and the "advanced" friends dictate their conditions and rules, still the important role will ultimately play the upbringing and inner peace of a person. If the adolescent has psychological problems and he will find their solutions in sexual relations, this will only exacerbate the internal problem. When a teenager does not have serious problems and contradictions, he lives in harmony with himself, physical intimacy comes not spontaneously, but consciously and in a timely manner.