Relationships between boys and girls, believers and non-believers

He or she believes in God. It would seem quite innocent, and even vice versa, a very noble addiction. That's just what happens if one of you acts as a complete atheist. After all, if not cool, it causes conflict of opinion and the complete opposite of interests. The relationship between guys and girls, believers and non-believers is a very interesting thing. Here it will be appropriate to say that the feelings of this couple and God himself tests for strength. So how do you avoid misunderstanding and keep your relationship if there is a problem between you.

So, the theme of our today's article is "Relationships between guys and girls, believers and unbelievers", we will try to consider the cornerstones of such love and understand: is it possible, or the difference of religious views dooms such a couple to failure?

There are only two simple ways to solve this problem. The first is that it's just not your person, and you can not tolerate his religious, so-called "nonsense." It will torment you, and pull to the bottom and you will never be able to let God into your heart, even for the sake of your loved one. You just have to part with it painfully. In the second case, you will simply have to spit on laws written by someone and live normally with your loved one (assuming that everything else suits you, of course). There is also a third option, but it is the most reckless and in its majority practically inconclusive. Its essence lies in the fact that you can simply not look into your future, but simply go with the flow leaving everything in its place. But, as we know it may end, another conflict of opinion thereby separating you completely irrevocably. In general, all these religious conventions only spoil relations. And to put this fact as a weighty problem is not worth it at all. In principle, if you understand, this is not a problem at all. After all, because one of you is a believer there is no depravity. Here everything is just the opposite, just as a person who believes in God will never allow himself to cause you heartache and suffering. It is, as a rule, faithful and devoted people who see everything beautiful in every food and blade of grass for them a whole chapter of human existence is open. The love of these guys or girls is comparable to the greatest God's gift that a person can get. Therefore, you should not be afraid of the fact that one of you at leisure reads not a cheap love affair, but a book of all books the Bible. Remember, believing people do not live for themselves, but for God and their loved ones. Agree, will you really be unpleasant, the fact that when they pray for you and ask for pure and true happiness for your soul. Of course, I'm not saying that everything will go like clockwork. Difficulties certainly arise. First, believers often negatively regard sex before marriage, or, for example, prefer a calm and peaceful way of life. Which, practically is not subject to the canons of modern understanding of the rest of the present generation. But still, who would be there, what did not say, but the relationship between guys and girls believers and unbelievers is a normal and quite possible thing.

If you really feel, real feelings for each other, then it will be appropriate for one of you to compromise, and the best way to do it is for someone who did not believe in God before. Try to understand and realize the importance of faith for your second half and immediately, not a minute, study the Word of God with him. And then you will immediately be able to notice how close you are not only physically, but also spiritually. First of all, forget about the opinions of others. In the end, you do not build relationships with them. Why do you even obsessive opinion of the majority. Listen to what your inner voice says. After all, for the sake of a loved one you can share everything with him only if he was always there. If your chosen one, the chosen one attends church. It will not be superfluous to show your desire to go with him (her) there. Learn prayers, go to confession, start observing the canons of religious fasts. Change yourself along and across your way of life. If you were previously addicted to bad habits, immediately discard it. With great understanding, treat the inner world of your opponent, do not try to dissuade him, so you will not achieve anything, but just push the person away from you. Your support is the greatest gift, the best of which can not be anything.

Understand and know this man, because such good-natured, open and responsive can only be, those who believe in God. The believer pays attention, first of all, to the soul, and the unbeliever is worried, first of all, by "material" and "bodily" problems. A believing person tries to take more wisdom from God and lead his life in an amazing harmony with himself. And in the surrounding people, he seeks only positive qualities. So you can safely say very lucky. And you should be proud of it. By the way, in any case, do not be jealous of your soul mate before God. You know, she (he) has enough room in her heart for you two. By changing yourself, you will immediately notice how you began to act in everything honestly, adhere to God's standards in everything, respected people more. You have changed exclusively for the better.

This is all for you should serve as a good lesson in your ability to cede and stand out from the gray mass of our stereotyped society. If you are a person able to easily and painlessly change your worldview and bend under your soul mate, then go ahead. Just share this faith with this man. The difference is that one puts the mind above the senses, the other is above the mind. The rest is small stuff. At the same time, one must understand that an atheist may well be a believer, but who calls himself such, in fact they are not. If you still do not like him (her) so much, or you are afraid of doing such as you think, significant changes in your life and can not give up your beliefs. Just go silently and do not torture either yourself or that person. Or as an option, if you succeed, try to keep at least a friendly relationship. It is much easier to be friends with a believing person than to build relationships. Therefore, if initially there is an opportunity not to go on about their feelings, this should not be done.