What kind of women are men looking for?
In the head of every man lives the image of an ideal woman. The guys want everything at once: to make the woman beautiful, smart and high moral, and even preferably a tigress in bed and the hostess in the kitchen, and if she gets along with friends and love football, it's even better! To some extent, the image of an ideal woman in men is decomposed into several separate. Sexy woman, who is given on the first date, does not limit herself to stereotypes and knows what she wants - certainly interested in the guy, but whether he wants to create a family with her or at least start a relationship? Most likely the acquaintance will end the next morning, when the so-called "first morning" syndrome comes in - you entered physical contact, but you did not have an emotional connection between you and the man.
But the second image of an ideal woman (let's call it family) is associated with completely different values - modesty, naivety, a sense of humor. What conclusion should a woman make of this? Remember, a man with serious intentions will never force events, blackmail and set conditions "or you do it, or I'm leaving ..." Of course, women are impulsive and sometimes we want to give your loved one all at once to show that you are the best . But we advise not to do this! The man is essentially a hunter. Guys sometimes quickly enough lose interest in girls who do not have to win. Do not sacrifice your pride for it is not worth it. Maybe you are a wonderful cook and your dishes are unusually tasty, but a man should win the right to try them. Appreciate yourself and your skills!
How to understand that you like a man?
How to understand how much you like a guy, how far is he willing to go in your relationship and does not consider the relationship with you a passing affair? To begin with, let's say this: our society exaggerates the number of men who are looking for a couple only on the weekend. Men, just like women, do not want to waste time and invest in relationships that will not lead to anything. Of course, every man has his own time line between a serious relationship and an affair. But, as a rule, if a man cares for you more than one month - you can with great certainty that his intentions are very serious.
It is worth paying attention to the courtship. How often does a man give you gifts, arrange small surprises and, what's most revealing, change his plans to meet you? All representatives of the strong half of humanity unanimously assert that if the girl they like, they and the mountains are ready to turn for her. Therefore, girls should not justify those boyfriends who give them little attention. Believe me, men have only one reason for this behavior - not much and I want to. Of course, relationships do not impose obligations on the guy to quit his job and entirely belong to you, but regular meetings and initiative should be.
What do men want from a love relationship?
And here again the demand of our charming men is evident. They want a quality relationship. The most frightening and repellent of men in the relationship is the rush of the woman. At what it can be expressed as verbally (hanging labels "we are a couple", talking about the future wedding), and in deeds (getting to know parents, attending courses for newlyweds and the like). Remember that men are very sensitive to their freedom, do not take it away from them even in words. Men also appreciate the care and attention on the part of women, they like understanding second halves that they will not pester with offers to go to a cafe, seeing that the man has problems at work or just not in the mood.
As you can see, a strong half of humanity does not seek in love something unreal, in fact, the same thing we are looking for in men and we, women. You can better understand a man, if you talk with him more often, the topics are absolutely not important. Chat about anything and everything - communication will help you approach emotionally!