Ideal pairs practically do not exist, because in relations two independent persons come into contact with one another, which means that at least minimal friction of characters, views and other things happens sooner or later in any pair. Therefore, people need to make compromises, adjust themselves to each other. In most cases, one of the partners does this more often than the other. Although it is believed that the woman is weaker, which means that she often makes concessions, this is not entirely true. Practice shows that men are more likely to compromise, because want to avoid quarrels, tears, clarifying relationships, etc. Women are more inclined to show violent emotions and arrange performances. There must be a reasonable balance in everything. What are the basic rules to be observed in relation to a man?
Personal time. If your man wants to watch football, transfer, etc., give him the opportunity to do it. Leave him space for hobbies, hobbies, favorite pursuits. Or maybe your man came from work gloomy, tired, he got his boss with his cavils, he has financial problems or something else? Give him time to come to himself and be alone with his thoughts, if he wants it. Do not bother asking if you see that he is not located to talk. He will be alone with himself, and in time will be ready to discuss the problems with you.
What else irritates men in women? They do not like it when women are too complex. You have to be yourself, because he loves you, such as you are. If you are not comfortable with your appearance, change something for yourself, but do not go too far. For example, if you have excess weight, do not execute yourself for every piece eaten, bring yourself to exhaustion. Fight weight with healthy methods. If it does not work out, remember that a woman can look sexy and beautiful and with magnificent shapes. And most importantly, love yourself sincerely, then others will look at you differently. Men like women, confident in themselves and in their attractiveness.
Men are terribly annoyed by a painful jealousy bordering on paranoia, to all in a row about and without. Such mistrust is able to eventually kill any feeling or to spur a man at least to flirt on the side. What really there, if all the same groundlessly accused of all the sins? Men are frightened by excessive emotionality, when a woman every minute requires the manifestation of feelings: kisses, hugs, gentle words, demands that she is constantly emotionally nourished. Men do not like it when a woman thirsts for every second's support, constantly complains about one thing or another, "whines," gets upset over little things like a broken nail, cries or gets irritated about anything and so on.
Men do not like very weak and insecure women. They quickly get bored with it. Strong sex is also irritated by constant attempts to inquire into their true thoughts, feelings, and so on. For example, "What are you thinking about right now? What do you think about it? "And stuff. A man is frightened when a woman tries to completely take possession of his personal space and all the time. She wants him to spend all his free time with her, search his things, pockets, boxes, transferring a man to the rank of his property. Men are annoyed by the constant shopping, especially when they have to go to the company with their ladies. This applies to cases when the trip to the store is not targeted for something specific, but simply aimless, with the contemplation of shop windows and walks from the store to the store.
Too chatty women eventually get bored with men. Conversations without stopping, especially after a day's work can pull a man out of himself. Not that the man did not like to listen to you, just in his opinion, many inessential details could be omitted. Men hate when they are blackmailed with sex. This is unfair and is a blow to the weak point. Nobody likes this. I do not like men, when a woman builds an innocence, accuses him of all sins, when the very "stigma in the gun."
Talking with riddles also irritates the strong half of humanity. At a time when women like to ask a man about their thoughts and feelings, they sometimes say riddles and hints, hoping that the man himself will guess everything. But men do not have telepathic abilities, and therefore they are annoyed by a lack of agreement or playing in silence. If a man does not guess himself, a woman may take offense, make a scandal or dramatically declare that she is no longer loved. Do not humiliate a man, express doubts about his masculinity, his abilities. This beats his pride and dignity. In no case do not say in the heat of a quarrel that you have wasted your time on it, that your ex was in something better. Be careful in words and in statements even during a scandal, because you can later regret it, and after all "the word is not a sparrow ..." Some women after a while of family life begin to deny a man in sex very often. You do not have to be in full combat readiness 24 hours a day and have sex at the first call, but a reasonable balance should be. If the man has already forgotten, when he had sex for the last time, this in time can be fraught with consequences.
Do not forget about your appearance. Look after yourself, be clean. The man in fact has grown fond of you lovely and well-groomed. Nobody calls to go at home with make-up and in evening dress, but you just have to watch yourself, keep the body and hair clean and tidy, be well-groomed and tidy, wear fresh clothes of decent appearance, etc. You do not need to choke a man with your love, show how you are afraid of losing him. Remember that men are hunters in some way.
And yet - always respect yourself! Have your opinion, know how to defend it, do not let yourself sit on your neck, humiliate you, manipulate you and so on. Then your man will respect you, too. Can a man get tired of a woman he loves? Relationships need to work for both partners. It is worth maintaining the flame of the family hearth, trying to understand each other, to love, to regret, sometimes to put oneself in the place of another. Love each other and be happy!