How many voices of strangers
They merged into a single noise.
But we meet a person and the distance between us is reduced to one step ... To one look ... To one desire ...
Be near…
We look at each other, hold hands, breathe in tact, not imagining existence without the one who makes the heart beat so fast ..But ... What if this feeling is not reciprocal, that if love can not have a continuation? For example, a holiday romance ...
How then quickly to cure another love, which does not let live and work calmly?
To begin with, you need to objectively evaluate your life, its quality. Find not a surrogate, but a real sense, fill them with your whole life, every day, every minute. Maybe - a new interesting hobby that will take your interest and all your free time. Do so that in your life there is no room for boredom! Let in your life there will be a new goal (or will remember the old forgotten, neglected). Finally, you can devote yourself to self-realization, to try to reach career highs. Make a list of small and big desires, concentrate on their implementation.
You can quickly treat another love in many ways.
For example, take a closer look at the object of your attraction. Weigh all the pros and cons. Try to look at the situation from different angles, with a sober look. Then you need to concentrate on the shortcomings, start to convince yourself that this person is not worth your experiences. And even more so, it's not worth it that you break your life for him (or her).
Essence - you need to fill your life with new impressions, emotions. Then another love will pass quickly. You just have no time to "dry" on the object of attraction.
It is important to remember that the world is big. And it's foolish to devote all your time and attention to one single person who does not need you. Do not engage in self-deception and waste your time on hope and expectation that things are about to start. Better try to imagine what would have happened if you had come to live together. Here, a day passed, a month ... of the year ... The novelty has passed, the topics for conversations have been exhausted, and more and more new lines are opening in your beloved, which you will certainly begin to annoy and upset. And so day after day. It brings boredom, does not it? Think about whether there are qualities in the person you deify at the moment, qualities that you will like for many years, will you be able to agree on something in the future, do your views coincide on life priorities? Is your next pass suitable for you? Does not every desire disappear?
Another good method to quickly cure your love is to sublimate the energy of love and direct, for example, to creativity. Draw, write, create something, even if you think that you have no talent. But you will have a new occupation, which in the future is likely to attract true love to you! And perhaps, the novel you wrote, describing your own experiences, will become a new bestseller!
Many people are helped by conversations, perhaps with a psychologist, perhaps with their mother, and some are easier to reveal to an unfamiliar friend. Pronouncing the situation, telling about your relationship from dating to the present, verbal bringing to the point of absurdity - that's what can help you!
But do not try to escape from sad thoughts, from your experiences. Depression in such situations is normal! Attempts to hide only exacerbate the situation, stretch your heavy feelings for a long time, so be sad, sad more often and more. And someday you will get tired of it.