Most women want to continue making love during pregnancy without restrictions, but many of them do not know how to cope with new sensations and not to harm the baby. Remember that besides safe sex during pregnancy, there are other types of intimacy between a man and a woman: for example, ordinary embraces or strokes. Give each other love and joy as often as you want!
Future dads, too, undergo all sorts of changes in their attitude to sex - from extreme excitement at the sight of your rounded and poured breast to the paternal feelings and the fear of harming the baby (capable of completely repelling the attraction). It is very important to frankly discuss all the issues that concern you - both about safe sex during pregnancy, and about your future parenting. Do not forget also that, due to changes in your body, caresses and actions that are pleasurable today can cause discomfort in a week.
First Swallows
Early pregnancy symptoms, such as morning sickness and chest pain, may cool down your sexual fervor. Inside you, a child grows, the placenta is formed, so part of the energy of your body is spent on providing these processes. Compensate for these energy costs will help qualitative relaxation, as well as enjoyable physical exercises, which include sex. In the early stages of pregnancy, many couples are worried that penetration into the vagina of a future mother can cause a miscarriage.
No matter how ridiculous this may sound, some men are afraid that by doing "this" they can push and injure the child. Convince the lover that the baby is protected by the cervix, and the amniotic fluid creates a reliable shell around it, through which even bacteria can not penetrate. Most often, pregnancy disruptions are due to chromosomal abnormalities or other fetal development problems that are rarely associated with your sexual activities. It happens that for couples who actively "worked" on conceiving a child, after achieving the goal, sex loses its relevance and necessity. Psychologically, this is due to the fact that the body simply needs a temporary rest from such "work".
Honeymoon
The second trimester can be safely called the second honeymoon for many women - morning nausea recedes, changes in the chest slow down and stop giving unpleasant sensations, in short, you get used to being pregnant. To your breast and other organs of the reproductive system, there is now a significant flow of blood, so your libido can greatly increase, as well as the ability to experience orgasm. But there is also a downside to the coin: at this stage, small post-coital bleeding is possible. When a man stimulates the cervix with a penis, a certain amount of blood can stand out, which always scares the partners. If everything is in order, the bleeding is uneventful and very quickly stops. Nevertheless, at the slightest suspicious discharge it is necessary to consult a doctor.
Stay beautiful!
Watch yourself, paying special attention to those parts of the body that do not depend on your new condition: take care of the beauty of the hair, moisturizing the skin, manicure and pedicure. Carefully choose underwear: it should be of high quality, support and not squeeze the chest, it is attractive to look. In the afternoon, put on simple products made from natural materials, and in the evening choose sexy fishnet panties and a T-shirt - a favorite will appreciate it!
Be proud of your tummy!
The crumb finally becomes noticeable - your forms become more and more rounded, during ultrasound there is a probability of determining the sex of the child who begins to thrust in your womb. It is at this time that the psychological connection between the future mother and the baby grows stronger. However, we should not forget that my mother should, as before, remain sexual. Often spouses experience an internal conflict associated with the concepts of "woman-mother" and "woman-lover." Frankly discuss such experiences, and if this does not help, ask for help from a specialist. Many women refuse to make love, because for them, sexuality is firmly associated with harmony. Society forms in our minds the image of an ideal body, which is already painfully far from the pervading forms of expectant mothers. Remember: now the love of your body is part of the care for your future baby.
Harbinger of a miracle
The nearer the date of birth, the more your attention is focused on waiting for the event and representing yourself in the role of mother, and not on the husband and closeness with him, as it was before. Most often, sex in the third trimester of pregnancy occurs spontaneously, because with such mood swings it is difficult to predict what you want in a minute. From the lack of amorous pleasures, women do not suffer because of the increased level of progesterone and estrogen experience a constant sexual attraction to their spouse. Driven by desire, they easily maneuver the tummy, coming up with new poses for getting maximum pleasure from intimate proximity. Sometimes, after making love, you can experience slight cramping sensations. This is normal.
During orgasm, your vagina contracts, and the hormone prostaglandin contained in the sperm causes easy "training" contractions. The seed itself softens the cervix a little, preparing it for childbirth. Consider that such fights should not be long and intense - otherwise you should immediately contact a gynecologist. Sex can not provoke childbirth, but if you feel the onset of labor, making love can speed up and facilitate the upcoming process. When you are relaxed and enjoying intimacy, in addition to prostaglandin, oxytocin is produced in the body, causing muscle contraction, and endorphins are pleasure hormones and a natural pain medication. With blood they get to the child, and he enjoys with his mother.