So, let's continue! Now we learn a few more situations in which the child should be guided and know how to behave. Consider the basic safety rules for parents and children when using the elevator, when choosing a nanny, if someone calls the door and what kind of danger parents can provide to their children.
Doorbell
Probably, every person faced with this situation, when a bell rings at the door, you come up, look at the peephole, and there are people there. What to do? Ask who came, quietly withdraw, hide or call family members who do not exist?
In this case, it will be better if you step aside, suddenly the attackers are armed, and the door may not protect you from the bullet, apt to loudly ask: "Who is there?" However, if the kid was left alone at home, then he is in no way I must say that there is no one at home, open the door and ask strangers to come later. At the same time you need to immediately call the police.
If you did open the door and the intruders entered the house, your task is to use self-defense means (if you are self-confident) to show resistance or to begin to obey their demands. Behave calmly, you do not need to cry and panic, simply, clearly and quickly fulfill the requirements of criminals. Try to gather all the family in one place, in one room, take the children in their hands and try to calm them, moreover, do not make sharp movements. Do not forget that criminals are always afraid, that's why nerves are unstable, which means that a righteous action can deprive you or your child of life. No matter how wicked you are, do not threaten intruders, because their nerves can pass and they will go to the victims, so sit quietly and try to remember as accurately as possible the faces of the attackers. When the first opportunity appears, call to the police, and also to the ambulance so they can help you.
Babysitter for a baby
If you need a nanny and you decided to contact a company that provides such services, then before you take a person to work, you need to do the following: get acquainted with the company, do not rely on a superficial acquaintance and impressive promotional booklets; Do not trust the accounts of employees or other clients whom "employees" accidentally mentioned. Speak with other parents who used the services of the given company. You can also contact the appropriate authorities to collect information about the company you selected.
Do not measure the quality and reliability of the price list, the woes can be specially inflated or vice versa, underestimated.
If you choose a private nanny, then listen to people you trust, collect as many recommendations as possible, and also look at the appearance and age of the nanny, pay attention to the experience of working with children. When you choose a certain person, make inquiries about him, find out what he does, who he worked for, talk with his colleagues, find out what they think about this person. Also, you have the right to ask the future nurse to bring health certificates, they also include a psychoneurological dispensary and a skin-venereal dispensary. If you and your husband decided to bring the baby to the nanny's home, then find out more about the mussels that come to her visit, as well as the members of the family . If you even hesitate a little, then ask the nanny to come to your home.
The nanny who will work for you should be familiar with the safety requirements that you apply yourself, you need to show how the locks of the entrance doors work, and how you need to use this or that device.
Tell the nurse that she does not in any way invite unfamiliar people, even if they say they know you. When you return home, be interested, kaknyanya with the child spent the day, whether any difficulties arose smeared. When the woman leaves, ask the foal what they did all day, how the day went, and whether he liked the new-born.
If the child did not like something, then find out why, what caused discontent, try to apply the game, in which the baby will act as a nanny, so he will tell what is wrong.
If you stop believing the nurse and doubt the unreliability, immediately dismiss her, even if you paid her a week in advance. Remember that the safety of a child is more important than money.
Elevator
As a rule, an elevator in the eyes of children is an attraction that can roll, moreover, when they enter it, they forget about the safety rules when they ride on the roof or open the elevator doors when driving. What if you can not meet or to spend a child?
First of all, you need to consider whether the kid can lift himself or go down by the lift, does he know the safety rules of the lift, what to do if the elevator is stuck, does he know how to call the dispatcher, whether he gets to the button you need, can he orient in any situation.
If the child is not independent, and he can not himself go naftte, then try to conduct it yourself or say it to go down the flimsy.
If the child noticed that a stranger is approaching, he will wait for the arrival of the elevator, then he should not turn away. Say that in such a situation you need to turn to him face and prepare to defend yourself.
If the elevator came, and next to it there are strangers, then the young man should not go along with them, but say that he forgot something on the street or left the house.
If, nevertheless, the child gets into the elevator with unknown passengers, then he should stand near the door, and face to the entered.
If suddenly a person starts to pester at a lift-lift, to take off his clothes, then you do not need to say that you'll tell your mom and dad or call the police, keep calm, do not cry, try to talk to the rapist.
If the maniac begins to hold you close to him, do not try to push him away, instead embrace and strongly bite his lip or nose, or better still try to bite off them. If the offender has removed his trousers or starts to unbutton his pants, quickly hit him between his legs, try to press the button of the nearest floor and run away.
If the elevator doors open, and you can run, forget the trash, things and other objects, life is more important, run, where you stand. If with it there was a deodorant or an aerosol, then squirt it into the eyes of the offender.
Danger from the side
We have already discussed a lot about the dangers posed by outsiders, but little has been mentioned about the dangers that parents themselves provide. Sometimes we do not hesitate, we endanger the life of our own child. This and new marriages, and divorces, and debts that you are unlikely to give, and the usual disregard for the rules of the road. From the very first days, bring up a little trust in the relationship between you. Make sure that the child is not afraid of either you or the father, telling the truth about the cases that can occur in life. Thus, you can save the child from many problems.
If you keep a lot of money at home, then do not let that the children know about it, because the kid, without noticing it, can tell friends on the street or in the apartment, and this will lead to theft.
Encourage your child to thrift, honesty and teach him to live by his means. If a child asks for money from you, let them explain why they need them. If you see that the request is not justified, then refuse to issue money, but at the same time explain the reason so that the child understands. If the child is offended, then his anger and resentment will lead to the fact that he himself, without permission, will take money, and this will break the trust relationship between children and parents.
If you have problems with finances, you started to threaten, then do not expose the baby to danger, leave it at the reliable people or in the orphanage under a different surname, because the child is your weak and vulnerable place.