Immediately you are visited by various thoughts that the child does not have your attention. Let's look at this situation through the eyes of the child. Earlier, my mother played and fed him all day, and now she is going somewhere, making me go to a kindergarten and play with unfamiliar people. If some time ago the kid was in the apartment a real master, now in the kindergarten he has to share toys, take into account other people's interests. Not every child immediately gets used to this.
In vasobratnaya situation - the implementation of work and domestic chores. There is no time, no strength to play with the baby. The only thing you can do is buy him more toys, hoping that now he has something to do. How to get out of the vicious circle and start all the time?
The most important rule is to stop blaming yourself. Your child will thank you for being an example for others, for children to show off their parents' achievements. In addition, moving along the career ladder is the path to success and greater income. If you blame yourself for having worked a lot, you should immediately understand why this is all done. The best school, professional tutors, good toys and equipment will allow your child to become happier.
Your household chores are also an important part of life. If you miss cooking dinner or cleaning, then the next day you will have to do twice as much, most likely you will be tired twice more. Be sure to share the work and the house, do not take the task at hand. When you do not have time, then talk with the management about how to reduce the amount of work. Once you go into your house, leave all your problems and worries behind, do not disrupt the anger and fatigue of those around you.
Once it has already been found out that it is impossible to dismiss household chores and work, why can the child's upbringing be postponed? Let in your daily schedule there will be games with the child, conversations, fairy tales and pleasant pastime. You do not get tired of your baby, so at this time you can rest.
To explain to the child how the games will take place, then just make a cheerful graphic. Point out that on Wednesday you will watch your favorite cartoon or kikino, whatever happens. In the weekend you will walk to the street at such and such a time, and every day for half an hour or an hour to play with it. The child will gradually get used to the fact that everything happens according to plan, will cease to pester you on other days. Be sure to tell me in detail what you do at work, what your responsibilities are, and why your work is useful. Let the child understand that you have a very responsible work, which benefits and enjoys people, and at the same time gets used to your work. If you have such an opportunity, then take it with you to work, just explain the rules of conduct.
Never deceive your baby, and the more you break promises. Sooner or later he will just stop believing you. If you do not want to go to the circus, then so distort. Otherwise, your bad mood will be passed on to the child. Listen to everything he says. Many mistakenly declare that the child has no problems, he goes to kindergartens all. Believe me, a kindergarten and you for him - the whole world, if you do not listen to him now, then he will stop telling. Ask how many friends he has, who he likes, what the teacher said. Be interested not simply, but truly, to learn the life of your child from all sides. He spent the whole day away from home and you, he certainly wants to tell you something.
Do not replace the communication with yourself watching TV. If you start to do it now, then in a couple of years the child will prefer the TV, while not communicating with his mother. Even if you very strongly love a child, he may not know about it. Speak more often about how you voprilo with a clever daughter or a son-boy, praise your child always.
If you really want, you can establish a comfortable emotional connection, the reward of which will be a long love and mutual understanding.