Sex after childbirth: problems

Agree, sooner or later, every woman encounters in her life with sexual abstinence. This abstinence can be caused by a number of reasons. From these reasons, it depends how much time will be spent before the woman's body adapts to regular sex. Scientists have proved that after giving birth during the baby's feeding, the hormone in the body is released, which reduces the libido and is responsible for lactation, and it should be added that after the birth the female body is restored for six months according to a number of physiological features and, in fact, the woman in this period is not up to sex.

Start active sexual activity after prolonged abstinence is not so simple. Long abstinence leads to the fact that during the first sex a woman feels moral and psychological discomfort. Having crossed the threshold in the bedroom, moral discomfort is felt, fear appears. Abstinence leads to complex psychological changes and the emergence of a so-called "widow complex". Women with such a complex react to the partner's affection very sluggishly, while it is very difficult and sometimes impossible to achieve orgasm. During abstinence, the body is rebuilt and those bodies that are responsible for physical attraction begin to work at the lowest level, while the woman does not want sex like that. It is in this case to cope with this problem will help only a specialist.

Sexologists divided women conditionally into two types: in some women, sexual appetite increases during abstinence, while in others, on the contrary, it falls asleep. Women, whose sexual appetite increases, are very demanding in sex, their partner must constantly come up with something new. This by no means means that such women like the variety of sexual partners, just for their full satisfaction, diversity is needed.

Some equate sex with riding a bicycle, if you know how, then remember, but from this confidence is not attached. In the head immediately there is a lot of questions about their attractiveness and sexual skills. And now imagine, then your forced penalty baton is over and you can plunge headlong into the world of carnal pleasures. To get rid of the unrest before sex after a long break, you need to understand a few things:

Prepare your body, check how it will react to simple stroking.

If this is your new partner and before that he did not have sex, do not rush into him with physical intimacy. Spend some time with him and wait until your desire wakes up. If you do not want it, then you do not have to force yourself.

Relax, will be what should be. If your head is occupied with thoughts, you certainly will not enjoy any calculations. Stop thinking hard.

You are a woman, and women are created to have fun. Do not be modest and ask your partner to make all your sexual fantasies come true.

Be proactive, do not be shy.

Pay special attention to the preliminary caresses, do not rush to try all the fun at once.

If the preliminary caress for some reason could not completely wake up your sexual appetite or you are not yet fully emancipated, take a joint shower with your young man.

You are confident and beautiful in yourself a woman, you do not write on your forehead when there was a last sex, do not worry.

If this is your regular sexual partner, behave, as usual, do not play, but do what your senses tell you.

If you can not reach orgasm for a long time, then it's worth to consult a specialist.