In books and movies, it is customary to show that after a date there is only an innocent kiss . And most women believe that if there is sex, your relationship will end after this. Although you yourself will dream, how he will embrace you, press you to him, stroke your hair, but you are stopped by old beliefs.
Against your sex with a man you like, there can be only one. Or you want to sleep with him, but you're afraid to look too accessible in his eyes. Either you do not want to finish your evening with a bed, but you are also afraid that if you refuse it, he will grow cold towards you.
The most important thing in this situation is that you want yourself. You should not be afraid of anything, listen to what your friends advise, or what your parents raised, your choice, should be accepted only by you. If you think that you need to refuse bravely do it, and if you want, then agree.
You must understand that, as if your evening has not passed, you have every right to refuse to have sex on the first date. After all, if a man wants from you only sex, you absolutely can not attract him to yourself and make him continue to treat you. Whatever you were not golden, understand that if you get sex from you, let it not on the first day, but in the second or third, after achieving your goal, it will leave you and will not be with you. After all, apart from sex, he did not need anything. And here you will have to decide for yourself and weigh the pros and cons.
Well, if you feel that you are very drawn to a man and see that he is also not indifferent to you, do not deny yourself the pleasure. Do not live with mythical ideas about right behavior. Understand that there is sex, it will help you feel more confident and relaxed. After all, if you are interesting to a man, perhaps it is sex that will be the beginning of all your further relationships. After all, even doctors recommend having sex, as it is able to maintain health and in this intimacy you need not only you, but also men.
Express your feelings and do not be afraid to show them, do not pay attention to what you have on the account with him, a first or tenth. Understand the presence of sex on a first date or if you, it will not, not how can not affect your future relationship.
Now you are able to assess the situation yourself and weigh the pros and cons.