In this article, it is not at all about the fears that accompany the release of adrenaline into the blood and cause the heart to beat more often. It's about complexes and phobias, which, of course, every man will deny. However, they are in all the representatives of the male sex. So, men are afraid ...
1. Lose freedom. Still from the history books one could understand that freedom is something because of which wars and conflicts begin. If people really love each other, serious relations between partners will never be regarded as a loss of freedom. For both men and women, this applies.
This phobia arises from the misinterpretation of the very word "freedom". Therefore, in order to get rid of this fear, it is enough to rethink the concept of freedom. You need to think rationally and understand that if someone wants to go, then he will leave, and no one can keep him. And the quicker the man is, the easier it will be to build a lasting relationship.
2. To show feelings. Many dameznayut not only hearsay, but also checked on their experience - almost all men rarely show their feelings (care, love, tenderness) in public. Yes, and not always alone with a loved one a man can express everything and continue to play in the unfeeling.
Most often this is due to the fact that a man does not want to seem soft-bodied, henpecked, weak-spirited and so on. All these stereotypes were inspired by women. Yes, we, the girls, made men out of men who can not show their emotions.
Sometimes the fear of showing one's feelings arises from self-doubt. Here things are more serious. Because first of all it is necessary to get rid of complexes, and not pay attention to someone else's opinion. If someone thinks soft-hearted or henpecked, then let it be their opinion, and you must be above it. In the end, it's up to you to decide how to cope with your girlfriend and to what extent to show your feelings to her.
3. Unclaimed. Demand here refers to the social status that is unsettled by a man (uninteresting work, a small salary and takdalee). Most often, such fear arises from the fact that a man has chosen for himself a not very prestigious specialty, he is not sufficiently educated or simply wants to work.
Fighting such a phobia is quite difficult. Because it requires power and will to achieve something. If a man wants - he will find opportunities, means and so on. As they say - the mountains will turn.
4. Impotence. This is probably the worst thing for a man. Only one word can terrify them. For men, it is much more terrible to become an impotent than to die or lose limb. Such a phobia can be justified. After all, with such a disease a man can not fulfill his direct biological role. Sometimes this fear begins to develop because of one unfortunate intimate moment. But most often it is directly related to the fear of age. After all, impotence arises from the aging of the organism.
Getting rid of this phobia is difficult, but possible. But again, this is only possible if the man himself is determined to do so. First, you need to give up bad habits and start to lead a healthy lifestyle. Secondly, you need to try to avoid stress. Be guided by cold desperation in stressful situations, dear men, and then everything will be fine. In the extreme case, you can calm yourself and the fact that medicine is not worth it, and even such a terrible disease as impotence can be cured.
5. Old age. As you can see, dear girls, not only are we afraid to grow old. Ultimate, men are not so much afraid of this, but not every member of the stronger sex can tolerate this inevitability in cold blood. After all, very few people are pleased to see the sagging belly and decrepit body from the shower. Or, putting on your favorite pants to find that they do not quite fit in with you. But thinness from old age also does not please.
Most often, the fear of old age arises from the realization that this can not be avoided. All of us are much calmer when we know that everything is under control. And when something comes out from under it, then we begin to worry.
6. Disadvantages. Real men always try to avoid any help from the outside. The exception is force majeure. There are also exclusions among the male half, and some still gladly accept any help from all. But that rarely happens. As a rule, the thought of outstretched hand-care causes them a small tremor in the skin.
Most often, the causes of such fear are the instability of wages or the presence on the brink of bankruptcy.
To get rid of this fear, you need to try to anticipate situations that affect your material situation, and also analyze and calculate your steps, avoid dubious activities, reinsert yourself once again, and so on.
7. To be mocked. Men do not like to be laughed at. Exceptions are only thesesuations, when they themselves want it. This phobia arises from the misinterpretation of thoughts, disputing facts in which I am not sure, in isolation, and so on.
To avoid such situations, you need to talk less, listen more, disagree simply without confidence or on topics that are not familiar. And most importantly, do not give "sit on the neck" to other people and most do not.
8. Loneliness . All are afraid of this. And whatever the bachelor bachelors say in public, they are still afraid to live alone all their lives. Men need care.
There is a fear of loneliness due to natural modesty, inability to communicate with the beautiful half and other complexes. And if a woman does not take matters into her own hands, then maybe a man will be alone.
To overcome this fear, you need to be determined and find the object of sympathy. Next, you need to build relationships with him and live a long and happy life. In fact, everything is very simple, if you overcome your inner fears.
Finally I want to add that most often all fears and troubles we come up with. Therefore, you do not need to complicate things, but just live happily, love and forget your loved ones.