Naivety is manifested in the fact that you believe in the ideal construction of the world in spite of common sense, but somewhere in the most remote corner of the soul you suspect that in reality everything is not so. But still, what are these signs of naivety and how to be a little naive with guys - and is it worth it to be like that? Perhaps, the image of the iron and indestructible lies will go to you more?
For men, this type of women is one of the most popular. How do you think why? Yes because it is convenient and simple. She does not represent any danger to the man, because through her pink glasses she does not notice what is happening right under her nose. And he will not demand from the man explanations or serious changes in his life. She naively believes in the veracity of the words and actions of her companion and waits for hours or nights from incomprehensible business trips or meetings. And he, in turn, feeds her with convincing stories about how hard he is working, how difficult it is, but it's all for her. It's somewhere very much like if a wolf raised for its feeding sheep. And they all, as one will be sure that the wolf is their breadwinner and protector! That's how it is in life. He feeds her with lies, she sings it in her praises and bathes in love and affection.
Let's figure out why it's bad to be naive. It is possible to begin at least with the fact that naivete does not always imply a belief in high ideals. Its manifestation is a belief in love before the grave, in the impeccable fidelity and justice of our world. This walk alone in the evening in the park, on the outskirts of the city, not owning martial arts.
Naivety is the belief that when you give everything you can to your boyfriend who is using you and lying to you, you will get something from him in exchange. Naivety is manifested in the fact that having started an affair with a married man, he will certainly divorce for your sake, because he loves you, and you do everything for him that the wife does not do. Yes, and prettier and younger than you are. And in addition, he himself tells you about this, a year already, but the wife-viper does not give a divorce. It's naive to think that a guy who does not love you will marry and fall in love after you get pregnant with it. This you only doom yourself to suffer, and a child without a father will grow, which is a manifestation of not only naivety, but also egoism. It is foolish and naive to simultaneously believe that if you have already married a man, you can walk around the house in a dirty robe, with disheveled hair and unshaven legs. You need to be able not only to snoop on a man, but also to keep, which is much more difficult. And in this form it is unlikely that this will be done.
Naivety should not be a form of idiocy. When we are openly made durra, and we all write off on his complex nature, a difficult fate and a difficult relationship with his parents. We sit at night sobbing and tormenting ourselves with questions like "how could I believe it?", "What a fool I am", "no, he could not do this to me", etc. And then in the morning we call, run, we go to him to apologize, ask for forgiveness for what he did to you! And over time, everything repeats. You again turn a blind eye to grievances and half-heartedness, the pain inflicted on you. You step over yourself and ... all over again.
But there are guys who like naive girls not only because they can be easily controlled, but also because then they feel they are full-fledged defenders of their female. Thus, they realize their needs of animal instincts.
Here are a few important points on "The signs of naivete and how to be a little naive with the guys", but before you embody all the advice into reality, it is worth thinking about: but will you have a nice way to play nice naivete?
After all, it is necessary to be naive not for real, but for fun. Then it looks nice and natural. Do not bother anyone, especially your boyfriend. And help you in life, but will not interfere. Let your beloved understand that he is stronger, smarter and more experienced than you. But this must be done wisely. This approach will only strengthen your relationship. You know everything and see everything, but pretend that you live in ignorance and do not understand anything. You must learn that you can not trust anyone to the end, and your best adviser is your mother. And everything in this world can happen, both a miracle and a disaster. Unfortunately, ideal relationships and men do not exist.