It's no secret that our strong men are afraid of strong women who alone raise their children, are working at a good job, and are proud that they are alone. It seems to me that in our time, many women believe that a man is a burden to them. Especially when a man drinks or does not work, then of course it will be easier for a woman to be alone than with such a man, and involuntarily the woman starts to believe that being one is much easier and easier. And with such thoughts they begin to realize all their desires and dreams. Gradually they cease to need someone's help, because such women start to live on the principle that "no one will do better than I", it's easier for them to do something than trust someone, because, having done the work herself, she is sure , that the work is done with a bang. Such women are not used to accepting help from men, and men are not particularly eager to help such a woman.
And communicating with his girlfriend, we touched on all the themes that worry the whole beautiful female half of the Earth, what to wear, where to go well and, of course, men. We said that the woman is weak and that she always needs help, whether material or spiritual. We spoke on this topic precisely because she alone brings up the child, and help from her would not be in the way.
She is by nature very modest and naive little man who does not know how to ask for help from men, and she does not particularly show that she needs help. She needed that the man himself would notice what she needed and gave it herself without any requests. However, waiting for "the sea weather" is neither time nor energy, you need to live and survive. And to some extent, she believes that asking for help from men is beneath her dignity. However, some individuals manage to get help even when they do not need it. It is not required at all. Help, gifts, walks, restaurants - they all can get it without asking. And they accept it all, considering that they cost much more than that. How it's done? Why someone asks and does not receive, and who does not ask, but receives?
Recently, her friend called her abroad to rest, and she told me about it in shock. She just turned into a helpless woman who can not afford going abroad. Said she could not afford it and that he would not brag about the next trip, as he teases her inaccessible. And then he received an invitation to rest at his expense. She did not even pretend to be a helpless woman, and she became for a split second herself, saying that she can not. Why do women become strong, thereby discouraging men and their care and help, if it's much easier to be yourself, be a weak woman, be the one you are, and then in just seconds the invitation is in your pocket? Is not it easier to be weak? Yes, of course a woman manages to be strong, but it is much more difficult to be who you are not. Strength in weakness. It is only necessary to become weak and the men will fall in stacks to help the weak. That's the power. But if you do not consider yourself weak, at least pretend to be weak, to get help and attention from men, be cunning, not proud. After all, a woman must be cunning, not strong. And a woman should know that strength is in weakness.
Any man is afraid of a strong successful woman. If a woman drives a Lexus, and he is only a Ford, then naturally, he will develop inferiority complexes. And for some reason in our world there is no such (maybe there is, but a little and I have not seen such), that after such a man tried to be better than a woman, for some reason he begins to envy her and hate her. And because of this, not only men, but strong men are afraid of strong women .
In our country, the saying about a woman is popular, "and in a burning hut it will enter and the horse will stop at a race." Is it not the duty of a man to enter a burning hut and save from a fire a woman who screams for help in that hut with squeals? Is it not the man's duty to stop the horse in a race to save the woman who sits on that horse? Have our strong men lost power? No, they just relaxed, because the woman can do everything herself, because she is strong. She will nail the nail, she will cook and prepare, she will lay the child to sleep, and she will bring the same money into the house. And what does a man do at this time? And our strong half is rubbing the couch and raping the TV. We weak have accustomed the strong to idleness, pretending to be strong. I would not be surprised if the saying about women is soon to become popular "a real woman must do three things in her life: plant a tree, build a house, and give birth to a daughter" ... and why should we have a son? If the daughter can do the same?
And discussing her future trip, she said, more would be such men who would be willing to pay your trip abroad ... or real men. And yet I believe that in every man a real man is slumbering, who is not only ready to pay for a trip abroad, but all our life, which consists only of beauty salons and expensive boutiques. Just a woman needs to become a real woman, that is, a weak woman, but first properly kick a man, that would be a real man woke up. And then in our lives there will be no men who are willing to pay, but there will be real men who will be ready to carry us in their arms.