Just do not know if it's harmful for a man - a "live" man next to Orlando loses ... What can you imagine that sex was brighter and both good? And can such secret desires of a sexual nature be considered cheating on her husband?
Orlando Bloom and Mickey Rourke are the same people as the men who are next to you. What we see on the screen is the image created by the work of dozens of people. Exactly the same image the woman forms in her imagination and actually has sex with this image, and not with another man. I think this is a variant of the norm, not a problem at all, and sexual fantasies should not be considered cheating on her husband. If such dreams improve sex life, help a woman to experience an orgasm, then there is nothing wrong with them.
In the end , a man in bed with a loved one, especially if he can not finish intercourse, also often secretly imagines beauties and other secret desires of a sexual nature - not necessarily movie stars, it may be a neighbor or co-worker, or even an occasional companion in transport. And that does not mean that it changes you or is about to change.
If, with such a frequent and regular sex life, a man is engaged in self-satisfaction, then he lacks something in sex - and this is not about quantity, but about quality. The partner should take a closer look at what porn movies he likes, every man collects the collection according to his own sexual preferences. For an intelligent woman, this is a kind of cheat sheet. It's worth watching a sexy porn film yourself or with a partner to understand what he likes and do it. Apparently, in this pair, not everything is lost, if a man still wants a woman almost every day, despite the fascination with pornographic pictures.
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If secret desires of the sexual nature of women are purely physiological satisfaction, then they are easier and safer to achieve by masturbation, with devices from the sex shop or without them. In this there is nothing bad or shameful, on the contrary - a lot of good for health and good mood. If, in her words, she wants a man, then this can mean that she still needs a relationship, because sex is the satisfaction of not only physical, but also emotional needs. She stands alone or together with the psychologist to figure out what she really wants.
As for the possible reaction of a man to the secret offer of "sex without consequences", then, as a rule, it is positive. Lately the strong sex has got used to that women more often show activity, and very much it appreciates.
If a woman thinks of herself as a woman (it's no accident that in the very first lines she does not forget to mention that the man contains it), then, in fact, their life together is hidden prostitution, in which, if you want, you do not want, you have to fulfill all the wishes of the "client" ". Such a relationship is found if a woman is nothing more than a beautiful accessory needed by a man for the sake of status. If the couple really has love and mutual respect for each other's feelings and desires, then the man will not make offers that offend the partner or are clearly unpleasant to him, in any case, he will not offer more than once.
Not every woman can safely watch how her beloved man is secretly engaged in love with another. She should be told directly, to him that his insistent desires hurt her, and if a man really loves her, he will agree not to talk about it anymore, or they will find a compromise together. Relationships in a pair are impossible without trust, attention to the feelings of a partner, the desire to go one another to meet. Without this, a harmonious sexual life is impossible. Therefore, when a woman writes "I want to make him happy," she must understand that the lover will not be happy, causing pain to his chosen one.
By the way , the fact that a man sometimes looks lustily at beauties and wants to be satisfied with secret desires of a sexual nature is not a cause for concern, one might be worried if he did not. For the stronger sex it is normal to be interested in women, the main thing is that he does not strive for pleasure in everything, but with the one he loves.