It is for this reason that in 60% of marriages the man changes. And this is only the revealed cases of the marriages of a married man from a spouse to a free woman. There are, of course, happy exceptions, serving, as they should, the proof of the recognized rule. However, most men were and still are the first contenders for treason in marriage.
How to determine that the husband is cheating?
This question torments many suspicious wives. Often it is their desire to find out if a beloved has a temporary or constant other - and pushes husbands to commit treason. But this pattern of women does not stop in their search for an optimal strategy for detecting the fact of treason. It is believed that the most simple and effective way to find out if her husband's mistress is a simple detailing of attention to his actions. And this technology of investigation really helps a woman to get an answer to such an important question for her. According to statistics, the wife's betrayal of a husband is revealed by his behavior. And in 80% of cases - on the actions of men at the sight of a mistress.
So how does the guilty husband behave, if in a society where he is present with a legitimate spouse, suddenly appears the one in whose bed he is looking for a variety of emotions? First of all, it gives out an unbeliever - a set of gestures, facial expressions, voice intonation and other ways without words to convey their feelings. As he is psychologically and properly, such a man instantly becomes a victim of his own fears. Outwardly this is manifested through a glancing look, fussy movements, attempts to retire to that part of the room, which from the location of the mistress is maximally removed and heightened tone. Often his man tries to hide his panic after an unnatural smile. But hands - they give it out completely. They flit from the mouth to the neck, scratching the bridge of the nose and constantly trying to brush off the non-existent dust particles from the jacket.
Noticing a mistress at a party where a man came with his wife or someone who can tell her about his strange behavior towards another woman, a man will certainly forget about the ability to look people in the eyes. His gaze rushes around the room in an attempt to find something to cling to to think about the situation. This escape of the eyes from reality does not last long: even at the sight of a mistress, men are able to quickly take themselves in hand and, at the very least, take a bored, calm appearance. But if he is seen precisely in the first minutes of the appearance of the one, the other, this glancing wife will not confuse anything with anything.
And if the mistress is a friend?
Of course, if he chooses a woman from the inner circle of the legitimate half, then when his lover appears, he is unlikely to lose his head: knowing full well that he will have to meet her regularly in the presence of his wife, he will morally adjust to the correct behavior in such situations. In fact, it is this unpreparedness that is the greatest threat for men. Being a man practical and inclined to control everything in his life, a man is easily lost if something goes not according to the path he has planned. Hence - and a fleeting glance, and fussy gestures, and the desire to immediately leave the common with his mistress space. But if the appearance of another woman is expected, then he will behave quite calmly. Although something still can give it away.
Namely, look. The mistress for most married men symbolizes sexual freedom, forbidden passion, which, as you know, nothing is more pleasant. Accordingly, the emotional tension between him and the woman with whom he rests from the family, can feel everyone. Especially - a wife who knows her husband well. Since otherwise, except as a man's gaze to show his feelings for a woman in this situation simply can not, it is through this channel that he risks finding himself. Staying extraordinarily attentive to everyone around, he will every minute of his free time look at his mistress. Which, it is likely, will answer him with the same coin.
Some more manifestations
Of course, not only by sight, but also by some other manifestations in behavior, it can be determined that in the room or in the cafe hall there is a woman with whom a man cheats on his wife. In particular, when it approaches, it will certainly start a little, barely noticeably back off. And when she comes up, he will be extremely restrained with her and will necessarily send an unflattering joke to her as soon as she leaves the couple. This guilty husband gives a way out of the guilt that all modifying husbands have, even if they themselves do not admit it. The exception is when the spouse is on treason not in search of new conquests, but in order to take revenge on the unfaithful wife.
Often the behavior of a married man at the sight of a mistress is reduced solely to praising and showing tenderness towards his official passion and harsh criticism of another woman. But in most cases, such men try to attract as much as possible the attention of their wives to the mistress. And they begin to speak impartial things about a woman who gives him temporary freedom, only if she thinks that her husband suspected something. Or he tries to make friends with his mistress, which threatens him with a lot of unplanned problems.
A look, gestures, a manifestation of fear, a strained smile, attempts to immediately leave the place where another woman so suddenly appeared, are only external signs of masculine behavior in such cases. And there are also a number of special manifestations of his guilt. In particular, these are attempts to show another woman how she is inappropriate here. Obviously, otherwise, than pampering his wife in every possible way, he will not be able to do this. So this man becomes when dangerous circumstances come for him, he is unusually gallant, polite, accurate in his movements and modest in his statements. Yesterday's quarrel with his wife for him ceases to exist in principle, and the mention of the hated friend of his wife suddenly evokes in him a keen interest and a sincere experience for yesterday's despised lady. Moreover, such a man behaves extremely cute with all the female representatives present in the company, where he came with his wife. Except for that same - mistress. To it he generally tries not to approach. But sooner or later, he will necessarily disappear from the sight of the wife for a few minutes, then explaining that he was on a smoke break, in the toilet or just breathing fresh air. Strangely, at the same time, the lady who her husband criticized so much or did not pay attention to at all will be absent in the hall.