The first wedding night: traditions and modernity

Planning for the wedding night should be given no less attention than the wedding. Regardless of how close you were, this night will still be your first night as a spouse. It should be remembered to you for life with your sensual romanticism, hot embraces and overwhelming tenderness. Therefore, be sure to discuss your wishes with half, prepare nice gifts and, of course, take care that no one disturbs you.

How to spend the wedding night

To begin with, you need to decide where your first wedding night will be. There are many options:

Your apartment or house

If you choose to have your own or co-habitable accommodation after the wedding, then try to make the bedroom look as romantic as possible. Do not immediately after the holiday to return to life. Rose petals on the bed, candles, properly selected lighting. Naturally, prepare a special bed linen. You can choose silk or a delicate cotton of unusual colors, unusual for you in everyday life.

In the refrigerator, put a bottle of champagne in advance and think about light snacks. It will be superfluous and together to take a bath with a fragrant foam that will relax you and adjust to the right way. Take your time, enjoy each other, shedding the nervous excitement of the past day.

Hotel room

Undoubtedly, the room for the newlyweds is the most ideal variant of the first wedding night. First, the room is decorated according to the event. Secondly, you are spared any household trouble: you do not need to think about anything, except for each other. What can be more pleasant after a stressful wedding day to go to a beautiful room, drink champagne and plunge into caresses. And in the morning order breakfast or leisurely stroll down for a cup of coffee.

It is necessary to take care of the following things in advance:

• select and book a room. Solve all the paper questions so that you do not have to stand in line at the retirement or rush home after your passport at the most inopportune moment;
• ponder the nightly menu. Believe me, you will certainly want to have a snack. And the hotel kitchen, which is not working at night, can upset you;
• find out whether the design of the room is included in the price and, possibly, discuss the decor with the staff.

The only minus the wedding night at the hotel - it's additional costs. But, in the end, with the cost of the wedding, paying the number will not be too burdensome.

Honeymoon trip

How is the first wedding night, if immediately after the celebration you decided to go on a trip? That's right, in transport, whether it's an airplane, train or car. And if in advance you have organized everything competently, the smooth transition from the holiday to the honeymoon will be easy and pleasant.

Of course, it is tempting to arrange a favorite surprise and instead of taking the house to her after the wedding at the airport. But, note that every girl needs clothes, cosmetics and other small things. And even if your money allows you to buy all this on the spot, think about how convenient it is to go shopping in a wedding dress. So it's better to dedicate your girlfriend or mother in your plan, so that they can help you collect the suitcase and prepare the clothes that your wife will change into.

Planning a trip immediately after the wedding, avoid options associated with a lot of transplants and a long wait between flights. After the holiday, even the happiest couples get tired in earnest. And, perhaps, it makes sense to spend the night in a hotel, and go on a trip the next day.

What to do on the wedding night and where to spend it, you decide. The main thing is that the conditions of romantic intimacy and awareness of the importance of what is happening are met.

In many world wedding traditions the farewell of the bride and groom for the wedding night is accompanied by special rituals. Before leaving the guests, the bride throws a bouquet. According to the signs, the girl who catches him will be the next bride.

You can also build an impromptu arch from a towel, through which young people must pass, going to a married life.

Even if you do not attach importance to wedding traditions, then it is necessary to transfer the bride through the threshold, whether it is an apartment or a room in a hotel.

The first wedding night for Muslims

What should be done on the wedding night, if the newlyweds are Muslims, and the wedding takes place in accordance with the relevant traditions? To begin with, before the intimacy, the bride and groom should pray and ask Allaah to bless the marriage. Namaz is performed separately by women and men. Then the groom treats the bride to sweets, perhaps giving her a sweet present.

Until now, it is believed that relatives should be expected under the door until the husband shows all the sheets with evidence of the innocence of the spouse. However, such a ritual is somewhat contrary to Islamic traditions. After all, the instructions say that you can not spy on people. And how to relax, if very close to the young are the elders.

In the rest, the Muslim wedding night passes, as well as at representatives of other religions. Accuracy, tenderness, delicacy, increased attention to each other's feelings - this is the key to the successful closeness of newly-born spouses.

So, in order to properly spend the wedding night, you will need to choose a place in advance, make small gifts and surprises, have patience, especially if this is your first sex and love. The rest will follow. Remember that the external surroundings are not as important as your feelings for each other.