It's very sad, but many women now enter into a relationship without love. The same error is often committed by young girls who have no experience in communication and relationships with men. They start dating a guy who they really do not like, but feel only sympathy for him and no more. Having succumbed to the persuasion of a guy, they start a relationship without love and common interests, hoping that in the future there will be love, and common interests, and harmony in the relationship. But they do not appear.
Relations that begin with indifference or easy sympathy are almost always doomed. Easy sympathy, which was in the beginning, dissipates like smoke, it turns out that the guy is not needed at all, that he is irritating and nervous, and even more frustrating is that with the unloved guy you need to go on dates, kissing, having sex. This irritation sooner or later leads to a grandiose quarrel, in which all the accumulated emotions and irritation are expressed. The couple break up. If a young girl thinks about why it all happened, then she will never repeat her mistake again, and will not start a relationship in which there is no love, not even a common interest, in the hope that this will all appear in the process of relations. But many repeat the same mistake many times. Of course, love does not come immediately, love at first sight is just an illusion. Very often for love at first sight take only a strong love, caused by the first impression, often mistaken. But you can not start a relationship if you do not have a common interest, if your views on life and relationships are completely different. Nothing good will come of it. You just will always quarrel with each other, proving your own point of view. And in the end it will lead to inevitable parting.
If everything is clear with young girls, they begin a doomed relationship simply because of their inexperience and naivety, then what pushes older girls and adult women to start such a relationship? Many women enter into such relationships, seeking in them, first of all, benefit. The most common material benefit. A lot of women hope that a rich but unloved man can make them happy, they hope that money and attributes of a luxurious life will replace love. Very often, such women find themselves in a "golden cage" when there is everything - money, smart clothes, a luxurious house or apartment, trips to restaurants, vacation abroad ... But there is not the most important thing - love. And there is only an unloved, uninteresting man, from which it is already impossible to leave, because he "invested" in a woman too much money and just so she will not let go. Every day the unloved begins to irritate more and more, and this irritation comes to hatred and strong mental suffering. After all, there is no love, there are no common interests either, the relations are soulless, gray. That's when the woman will understand that money will not replace true feelings.
It happens that women start relationships without love just for the sake of sex. If a woman does not have sex for quite a long time (for each of them individually), then she will be ready to enter into a relationship with a completely unloved and uninteresting man to her only because he arranges her as a sexual partner.
Relationships without love and common interests sooner or later come to an end. Therefore, one should avoid starting such a relationship, they are initially doomed and will make both partners unhappy.