Silence you, of course, can be talented: you do not talk with your husband, as if you do not notice. The husband after a few hours of intrigue in a silent capitulation. But here's the paradox: everything seems to be going the way you want, but you've been recently displeased: you notice that something has changed in the relationship, coldness has appeared, the husband offers you nothing, he has spent more time at work or in the company friends. And here you and other equally important young ladies who want to be happy in their personal lives should remember the advice of family psychologists: the guarantee of harmonious relations is, first of all, the ability to conduct a dialogue and compromise.
If you want to live in harmony , you must agree! So it turns out that the art of compromise - the ability to sacrifice the smaller, to eventually get more, the marriage of women. We must be thinner, more flexible, wiser, more responsive. Just pay attention: all this does not mean that ladies should always make concessions and agree with their faithful in everything. Such unilateral concessions will not lead to anything good. Sooner or later, the always inferior party, dissatisfied with this fact, will still forget all its good intentions and declare: "I'm tired! Enough! "In an amicable way, concessions will have to go to the other half. But here's an ill luck, she already and forgot how it's done, because all this time only favorably accepted. In general, the situation turns out to be a dead end. To do this, we must use a compromise - the ability to sacrifice the smaller, in order to get more. To change the situation, we must be able to find compromises and offer them to our beloved in time. And if at the same time you can convince your loved one that this is his initiative, that he is a clever, bright head and the best husband in the world - he offered such a brilliant way out of the situation, then this is altogether aerobatics.
Assignments by the rules
To compromise (in a good sense of the word) in family relationships completely justified, "use" they need, following the rules. To reach an agreement, both partners must give up something. For example, he wants to go to football, and she's going to a concert of her favorite singer. After discussing all the possible pros and cons, they, so that no one was offended, decide to go ... to the cinema for a film that both wanted to see or find another compromise solution. In the end, both he and she were satisfied with the way they spent the evening.
There is a rule that the one who offers a compromise must first surrender to the partner, and only then think about concessions for himself. And you need to do this voluntarily, without turning it into a kind of blackmail: You to me - I to you. For example, you want to go to a cafe to eat a chocolate dessert, and he dreams of a pizza. Then you suggest: let's really go to the pizzeria today, and I will limit myself to a vegetable salad, and next time we will definitely go to the cafe. Be grateful for the concessions. Even if the beloved did not bring the promised until the end. Let's say you asked him to clean the apartment. And although the partner had other plans, he conceded. He folded things in the wardrobe, vacuumed, but forgot to wipe the dust. Do not point out the "tails", on the contrary, thank him. It seems that after this partner will be much more likely to meet. And in general the compromise is good.