Alcohol
Along with drug addiction, this is the most pernicious passion, capable of killing a man in everything, and you are compelled to bitterly regret that once you associated your destiny with an alcoholic. But to bring the matter to such a state is not worth it. What to do?
1. "Ditch" the company with which a man drinks alcohol. You will have to literally pull out all your female wisdom, in order to - firstly - to occupy it with other matters, so that he literally did not have time to get drunk, and secondly - to force him to abandon "friends" who take to chest more often than once a week. Do not forget that beer alcoholism is not at all safer than wine or vodka. A daily bottle of beer is the first step to addiction, which comes much earlier than addiction to strong drinks.
2. Alcoholism is a disease of self-doubt, fears, discontent with life. "Dug in" to the root causes of the desire to "relax and forget", try to eliminate them. They are usually associated with failures in the workplace, in the family and in bed.
3. Alcoholism as a hereditary disease is a myth. Do not believe it! By inheritance can only be transferred to those traits of character that make your spouse pour and drink. This information should be brought to the beloved if he convinces you that he drinks, because his mother did not fall asleep without a good portion of the potion, and the father did not dry out for months.
4. Do not swear at all with him - it's useless! Try to persuade, persuade, in the end, to intimidate. In another way, it is unlikely to eradicate this most harmful habit of men.
The habit of "going left"
If such a habit is not really there, but it only seems to you that the husband is asleep and sees how to change, do not at all arrange scenes with threats, what will happen if he, God forbid ... Men are stimulating such things those times when to look, "what will be", was considered a matter of male honor. If precedents take place, try to explain to him how unpleasant it is to you, why, and what "bad" thoughts you get from his "walks". Do not worry yourself: accompany him wherever you can, under any explicable excuse. Do not arrange numerous hen parties with unmarried friends at home - why introduce a "male" into temptation? Often flirt with her husband - with all the jokes, jokes and "feminine tricks", so that he does not feel his hunting instinct "on prikole". In the case of this habit, the fewer scenes, the better. Skalki in the hands of a lady who meets a reveler at the door at the end of the night, "act" only in comedy series.
Game and computer addiction
The scourge of our time: the man returns from work and sits down at the computer. A kind of alcoholism for those who do not want to "drink". The action of computer dependency is comparable to the effect of alcohol: this is also one of the most harmful habits of men. Why are they doing that? To "disconnect" from the surrounding reality, isolate yourself from problems, boredom, insecurity, discontent with life. Start with the fact that you often take the computer yourself: look for prescriptions, advice on raising children, etc. - come up with any excuse to break the stereotypical behavior of "dinner is a computer - a dream." "Work" with the player you need, as with the child: do not prohibit, and switch attention. Often go with a game player in the fresh air - psychologists have noticed: gamblers - amateurs wander the streets, have fun in the company, work out "nonsense". Is it bad to make a night out with your lover? Remember only that the computer should be kept out of the way - for "pulling" from it will be almost impossible.
Smoking
If a man is under thirty, it is easier to wean him from smoking. Of course, when you do not smoke yourself, and for a loved one, the impression that it produces on you is expensive. A drop of stone sharpens - and your frank talk about how unpleasant you feel this smell at home, and even more so on your own lips, can have its effect. Remember the main rule of dealing with this habit: a rare man in principle understands "hints", but here, even more, say directly what you want from him and why.
Techniques to help quit smoking, not less than a dozen. Effective way - to reduce the number of cigarettes in order to eventually abandon them at all. Many quit smoking overnight: three to four days of "breaking" and, as they say, "free". There would be a desire - it is simply necessary!
Household habits
This is legendary: the most harmful and disgusting habits of men who derive women from themselves. Sing in a bad voice in the shower, gnaw on the nails, scratch, cite advertising, instruct everyone, sit for hours in the toilet, eat at night, yell in a bad voice while watching football, write past the toilet and countless other habits that we women seem to be riding indecency and "ugliness." Here, too, scattered around the house socks seem innocuous male prank ... In fact, with socks can still be fought - and with all other similar habits is unlikely to work. They are the fruits of education in the parents' house, literally soaked with the mother's milk. They should be reconciled. And again: men do not always have the task of appearing and behaving "beautifully" - they are different! In the end, it can also irritate your habit of talking, while filing your nails. Or your urge to remove the bed at a time when he only rose for a second to get to the toilet.