However, to our happiness or chagrin, there is one area that has not succumbed to the perishable influence of modern trends: psychology. And what do you think, in what question? Views on the formation of the family.
Remember the words of your grandparents: hand in hand all your life, five children. Earlier, marriage was associated with the immediate birth of children and served in the understanding of the population only as a means to give life to a new person. Young people today are not inferior to this old people. Of course, few children today, few people give birth, but here's the first child in the first year of life together - easily! However, such a desire to create a strong family turns into a tragedy in some cases: families break up, and abandoned children remain.
1.Hochetsya as soon as possible to wear a wedding dress and an excellent tuxedo? You will have time, the REGISTRY OFFICE in the near future will not abolish.
2. Do you want to check how long you will sustain hammering nails on the fence of the dacha, washing socks and cleaning up the dishes? Live a civil marriage and feel all the delights of living together.
3. Do you think it's time to start babies? Do you think that they are not even more difficult to take care of them than for a domestic cat, and your baby will always be in the same excellent mood as on a pack of diapers? You are beyond reality, we advise you to stop hanging in the clouds.
4. And if for some reason you can not have children? Is this a reason to be killed? Remember childless couples who do not suffer at all because of this inferiority complex.
What do you think, dear ladies, who are you asking all these questions? The author of the article? No, the men.
Why do they ask these questions? There are several reasons for this:
1. Your chosen one is too young and does not want to burden yourself with marriage. If you are also young and optimistic, then really, do not rush your sweet friend. The way will grow. And if you are already ready to wash socks and give birth to a child? I'll have to lead the groom in the registrar's office.
2. He is an egoist. He wants a personal space, and seeing you on his personal territory, can lose his temper. Selfishness and infantilism. Or maybe he wants to drink beer in the evenings or, say, cut out boats from the tree, but he knows that you will resist it? Therefore, he chooses a civil marriage. He wants to look at you.
3. He was already married. The second "move" so far, the forces are not enough. Perhaps the first wife was not a gift and beat off your "cat" any interest to go to the registry office again.
4. He does not like responsibility. His bachelor life suits him completely. And a civil marriage does not oblige to anything, because there is no document confirming that "you will love and help each other in sorrow and joy".
5. His friends are setting up against marriage. Constantly joke and assure that after the stamp in the passport he will become henpecked.
The reasons for living a civil marriage for men are really many. It seems to us that the primary source of all problems is fear. Fear that he will be deprived of beer and will not watch football, fear that he will really turn into a henpecked, fear that he will have to bear responsibility for the whole family.
Ladies, if you have a complex man, you need to find an individual approach to him and cure him of the idea of "eating a passport."