Sounds convincing. How should we stand when one of our relatives or friends starts talking about the fact that everything is "not like people's"? What can you do if someone around you does not approve of your lifestyle? Let me understand that your "strange" habits and hobbies, "controversial" decisions - is not a whim and not a minute whim. They make you happy - every day it gets better and more interesting. Ask your relatives if they are ready to take responsibility for your life. And what if you deprive yourself of the main chance, if at the insistence of the pope you go to work for his firm instead of starting to make a career on your own? You have the right to make mistakes. The most useful lessons we still draw from our own experience. Perhaps in a few years you will be convinced: the people around were in some ways right. Then you talk about this and talk. Well, now you prefer to take risks. Bring in the example of well-known successful people who once also faced with misunderstanding. They all went their own way, not paying attention to other sarcastic attacks. A short woman's haircut, which began to wear Mademoiselle Coco Chanel, once seemed to many ridiculous. And what? "Neformalku" Koko now worships and approves the whole world.
By its rules. It is important that the passions are not heated. Your family or friends can be seriously frightened if they decide, for example, that you have fallen into someone's bad influence. The people around should see: you have not forgotten about them and are not going to move away, although you are building your life not quite like them. Do not people around you approve of your lifestyle? Consider that people's opinions are changeable, and time is the best judge in a dispute about how to live. Are you sure you chose the right path? Then go ahead!
Are you a man of action? Do you think that the best strategy is "to get involved in the fight, and then we'll see ..."? We will help you decide what is closer to you - actions or reflections. You are a typical "theorist"! Your vocation is to analyze, compare facts, discover causal relationships. Friends and acquaintances in vain are waiting for your deeds and accomplishments. But, once glancing in your blog on the Internet or talking with you heart to heart over a cup of coffee, they are fascinated by the flight of your thoughts. Well, if you managed to find a job for a soul, after all, a pure theorist is a rare bird, and not every employer knows how to communicate with her. When time is short - you act, the situation requires a thoughtful analysis - you reflect on the problem. You can adapt to the circumstances and know how to be different. It's not easy for you to be a ringleader in a big company, although you rarely sit in a corner. Thanks to this combination of qualities, you are always surrounded by interesting people.