Many psychologists and sexologists say that the modern world has become asexual. People of more mature age often refuse to fulfill marital duty, and young couples like fast sex, which does not require much effort and time. So, many studies have found out that there are some food products and other things that just kill our libido.
Many things in our world do not allow us to spend time, as we want. A lot of duties have fallen on us and congestion is something that prevents us from living in our own pleasure. But there are things that completely discourage the desire to have sex. But without sex it is impossible to be happy. Let's get acquainted with the enemies of the sex mood.
Life
Everyone knows that most people, every day, live quite sulkily. What is the reason? All the fault of the duties that are falling head on, and on itself, practically no time. The house takes away not only time, but also force. When all the work is done, thoughts of sex simply dissolve, because I want to crawl to the bed and lie down. I do not want to think about any caresses with my beloved.
Sleep - this, of course, is a necessary and useful thing, but if such a rhythm of life goes on for a long time, because of the lack of sex and other caresses, a relationship will be nepohilopodportatsya. However, what do you do if you are exhausted, and having sex is also a physical load? Try to do all the housework together with the partner. Only this way you can reduce the load, and have sex with your loved one.
Job
Of course, domestic problems and responsibilities are incompatible with healthy intimate relationships, but an even bigger enemy of sex is work. If you work in a state-owned enterprise, and you have a normal working day, there are laid-off days off, then there will be no problems, but now, as a rule, employers require that employees work harder and do not actually give days off. For example, if you have to be overtime at work, then you will not have time for home and family at all. Moreover, often at work so exhausted that you creep home like a squeezed lemon. Of course, what here can be sexual intimacy. And stresses also make your business.
This is a very big and complex problem, however, it is. For example, there is an option to talk to the director and try to explain to you that you need less workload or to ask him to transfer you to a more easy position that will not take so much time and effort. Moreover, at any time you can quit and try to find another job that is more convenient for you.
TV
Almost every bedroom now has a TV, and many couples enjoy it with the same pleasure, thinking that the time will be pleasant, they will watch movies together. Of course, the idea is not bad, because you will have your own cinema in the bedroom, but there are also disadvantages. Watching TV worsens the quality of sex and reduces the number of times of communication. For example, news is heavily loaded with consciousness, militants can generally discourage the desire to make love, serials are exhausted, and porn films create a sense of inferiority and insolvency.
If you want to protect yourself from such harmful effects of television on the social life, stop watching movies in a shared bed altogether. If you can not refuse such an idea, then choose films more cautiously and responsibly. Immediately give up scientific, documentary films and audiences. Inappropriate in the bedroom are dramas, horrors and insurgents, of course, if you want to engage in not just sex, and passionate sex. The most normal options are romantic melodramas and comedies. Try not to penetrate the films, do not empathize with the characters, just brighten up the evening with a film, but not over. Porn films are only allowed to look at those people who are holding back the norm, normally refer to this kind of art and just want to make the sex more diverse.
Of course, because of the above factors, you can not want sex and you and your partner, but there are things that kill sex-orientation in men. This is what this is for:
Fast food
To make it, use margarine, which contains trans fats. Especially a lot of them in potato chips. Thanks to them, the level of the male hormones decreases and moreover, the immunity becomes weak, the ap- proximation to the development of diabetes mellitus increases.
Sushi
Tuna can contain arsenic, mercury and other chemical dangerous compounds. To cook sushi most often take just the old and large fish, and with age the fish accumulates more and more dangerous and harmful substances. The content of mercury in fish can be many times greater than in the water that it lives. In general, sushi from old and bad fish are toxins that fall into your body and harm your health, including sexual ones.
Soybean
Soy contains isoflavones. This is an analogue of female hormones phytoestrogens of plant origin. Therefore, the more a man has sex, the less sperm he develops his body. If you use soya constantly, this can lead not only to a decrease in potency, but also to infertility.
Tight underwear
Clinging panties squeeze the sexual organs, because of this, their temperature rises. As a result, the concentration of spermatozoa significantly decreases, moreover, in order to restore everything to its former state, a man will need two whole months.
Age
After thirty years in men's organization, sex homons begin to form more slowly. The level of free testosterone is 30-35%, but every year it decreases by 1.2%, moreover, problems with health, stress and bad habits contribute significantly to this and increase this figure.
Flavored candles
The sellers say that they increase the sexual desire, awaken the passion and allow the bedroom to create a romantic special atmosphere, but in fact they can act quite the opposite way. When candles, which are made from technical paraffin, burn, into the air, there are emissions of toxic substances - toluene and benzene. These are the strongest toxins that can cause a whole bunch of diseases - from allergies and simple impotence to cancer.
Medicines from ARVI
They include pseudoephedrine and diphenhydramine. They not only reduce the libido, but they can also cause the erectile dysfunction. Moreover, antihistamines can also cause problems with erection, because they affect the part of the nervous system that is responsible for the stimulation.
Alcohol
Alcohol - this is the most real poison, which affects not only the sexual desire, but also the whole organism. Alcohol is an antidepressant, which means it slows down the body, but we all know that for sex you need to be excited. Of course, a couple of glasses of wine will remove the psychological barrier and rasslabit, but at the physiological level it affects negatively. Initially, the alcohol expands the vessels, and we feel a rush of heat, but after a while the reverse happens - the vessels shrink. The blood is hard to get to the genitals, so men can not achieve a firm erection. If you drink alcohol for a long time, then chronic violations in the reproductive system may occur. This is the loss of sexual attraction in women and erectile dysfunction. Moreover, as a result of constriction of blood vessels, a stroke may occur, which is often in the morning in alcoholics.
Tonic
Tonic was invented in Africa and India, so that malaria could be cured. Then the only medicine was the cinchona bark. Quinine was extracted from it, and it was drunk with its vault. The drink was very bitter. One hydrotechnical engineer added a quinine to the soda water, poured some ice and cut off a slice of lemon. The medicine became quite pleasant to the taste, and a tonic appeared.
Malaria is sealed with other medicines, and people still drink tonic and still, because it has a pleasant bitter taste. However, he is actually very dangerous. Quinine is a very powerful poison for the testicles. When he enters the male body, he begins to kill the cells that produce testosterone in the testicles. But such a drink as a "gin-tonic" causes double harm to the organization, especially the libido, because quinine and alcohol are used together.