To marry an unloved person

You are now obliged to marry an unloved person. Even if you do not want it at all. You yourself know very well what it's like to desperately clutch your head at twenty-six years old and ask yourself: "Lord, what did I think at seventeen, and who needed these thrown-up dogs at the tail of nine years?" But you're still very fortunate. Here some people, asking themselves the same question, operate on figures and twelve, and fifteen, and even twenty years. And why? Yes, because sometimes, making a decision about marriage. We rely on prerequisites that have nothing to do with our desire to marry.
You already said yes. No, well, everything was so romantic ... Flowers, a restaurant and a ringlet in a box with a heart. What nerves this will endure? So she blurted out without thinking. And now it is inconvenient to refuse. How is this: today "yes", and tomorrow "no"? Uncomfortable and untenable. And now you have to marry an unloved person. Actually, it's inconvenient to open an umbrella under a blanket, it's unreasonable to sweep away all the snacks at a corporate buffet, and it's not worthy to give false hopes to the person who loves you.

He loves you very much. So now you have to marry him. "To marry," the wise ladies teach us, it is necessary for someone who loves you, not for someone you love. For the last of the skin will go, and you'll rest on your laurels all your life. " But there is nothing more terrible than living next to the unloved. The situation is aggravated also because the latter desperately yearns for reciprocity. Of course, you will not add unrequited love to your neighbor in mental health apartment. But the reverse situation will destroy your personality very soon.

Know ours, traitor! The traitor is your ex. Who married another and did not appreciate the height of your moral and ethical qualities, the variety of culinary talents, sexual emancipation and a charming birthmark on the left collarbone. The traitor must learn that the connoisseurs were very much found, and immediately. So the traitor and it is necessary, let now elbows bites. Well, the fact that the traitor will bite his elbow a maximum once (and then not a fact!), And your life will go downhill - this is the tenth thing.
And what will people say? This reason invariably shocks. "She canceled the wedding, imagine ?!", one aunt in her kitchen fifteen blocks from your house will say. So what? You will prefer happiness and the stigma of "bitch" from ten thousand tetenes to the approval of all these tetenecks, associated with a dull existence during the next five-year plan.

If they do not call. You are obliged to marry him, because you are afraid that you can not even call out more. After all, we all know that there are nine girls for nine girls according to statistics, and after a certain age it is somehow indecent to be unmarried. So, guided by these considerations when making vital decisions - this is the last thing. After all, you are at home alone, and those wishing to discuss your life will always be found. So whether to pay attention to them, because this is your life and you have the right to dispose of it yourself. And if you argue this way, then you'll be married, you can not doubt, and besides, the one who suits you. The only reason to marry is to desperately want to live with this person all his life and give birth to people like him.

You want my blood? According to scientists, it turned out that a half-hour quarrel slows the body's ability to heal physical wounds. This becomes especially relevant on the eve of surgical interventions. In hospitals, it is advisable to conduct special tests to find out how long the patients will have to recover from surgery.