Yet it is good to communicate with wise women who can share the conclusions about the difficulties of life and the priceless experience gained over the course of time. As they say, it's smart to learn from other people's mistakes, and trying to follow this folk wisdom, I try to learn something from the words of my friend, absorbing her moralizing as a sponge. And I'm glad that I can share these lessons with you, dear guests of our beloved and informative site.
Recently sitting with a friend in a cafe, we discussed her past, the moments she regretted about and which influenced her life cardinally. I supported the deflated and pasted girlfriend as best I could, while she was aching about past love. Love is not quite past, but busy. What you need to do in order not to miss your love you will learn from this article on the topic " This past love will become a future sadness ."
Of course, if you do not act in time everything can become a future sadness. Especially love. There is nothing worse than mental pain and sadness. Who knows how my girlfriend's life would have developed if she had acted on time. Again, it's about heart issues. Nothing upsets us, women, like unsuccessful love relationships, which did not come about because of our shyness or shyness. As the popular wisdom in love, as in the war, all means are good. And love in principle is a kind of war, a war of the sexes for equality, for feelings, and for love, of course.
In her youth she met a young man who did not take seriously, because she already loved another man. He was her boss, she was his subordinate. Well, which boss will not pay attention to a pretty and very pretty employee. He showed signs of attention and care, but from her side there was only cold politeness. Perhaps, everything would have been different, had it not been for her crazy love for her ex-husband. At that time the future, and now is an ex-husband. She was naturally pleased with the attention of the man, but he was still not persistent, she said, and was too shy that prevented the heart from winning a beautiful girl. She, too, was shy, and how she was hiding behind the coldness of her interest in a young, handsome and wealthy man.
Many tried to reduce them for many years, but nothing happened. Again, I remember the folk wisdom of "not destiny." And after many years they met. He has a wife and a child, she has a child and a divorce, but still they have something in common between them - these are undiscovered feelings, inexpressible words. How long does it take to recognize love? Really many years, or all the same love does not die for years, but it remains to live in the heart of each of us, waiting for a spark that would flare up again. Now she very much regrets about missed chances, and already, it seems there is no chance that I would get it completely, and not just my heart. After all, a woman does not have enough of one heart over the years, she wants fullness and stability next to her beloved person. She dreams of marriage. If it were not for a stupid youth, how I would now live lamented my friend. Stupid youth, lost love, broken destinies, because he is unhappy with his wife, and lives only for the sake of his daughter.
Stupidity is a small nuisance, and youth often consists of small and rather big nonsenses, committed by adults who justify their foolishness with youth, and they will remain young until they become wiser and stop doing stupid things. Although it is generally accepted that you are allowed to do stupid things in your youth, but think about what they might actually be like and how these stupid things can change your life and which side.
What should I do not to miss my love? What can I do to prevent past love from becoming a future sadness? How to learn love and how to act? There are a lot of questions, but I understood only one thing, you never need to stay idle, and you do not need to hide behind a mask of indifference. Any second we can meet our love and at any second we can miss it. After all, everything is built around love, our whole life is built around a loved one, and if there is no loved one around whom we build our lives ?! Therefore, we must miss our love, especially since many men these days are not so bold, they are shy and cautious, if we do not act, who else will build our happy future for us.
Many girls believe that the signs of attention from the girl look like an imposition and prefer to stay idle. It is generally accepted in the people that a guy should seek a girl, and not vice versa. And why not do the opposite? Why not win a man? And you do not need to consider and be afraid that our signs of attention will look like an imposition. We need to speak directly and immediately, and show all the senses, thereby we will take our male half off-guard, and from this they definitely will not stand. They will not have time to come to their senses, but they will already be at the altar in the church in a black tuxedo. Although men inherently inherent feelings of the conqueror. A man wins us at the beginning of a relationship, or, more correctly, wins, to create a relationship, and then during a life together we win them delicious food, a beautiful figure, clever words and understanding eyes so long as he is around until we get bored. If we act as the initial conqueror, then maybe during the life together they will conquer us?
We are afraid and shy, men are often too afraid and shy. We are afraid to hear the word "no" and get a refusal, and it is from this that so many unfortunate and lonely people on our earth dream every night to find their own half. You can not live in fear, you need to be prepared for everything that fate gives us. And fate gives us everything that we would be happy, we just need to catch and manage it, do everything that would become happy, because everything is in our hands is another wisdom.