Mother Teresa
The first type we will conditionally call "Mother Teresa". To it there are girls who constantly try to help everyone and see something good in all. If they see a guy who drank without a drink, then they will find an explanation for this, saying, for example, that he was hopelessly in love and is now drinking from grief. If you are unemployed, such a girl will justify him, explaining that a young man simply can not find himself in life, because his talent is visible to everyone and will work for two, while he will sit in the computer, playing games or watching TV.
If you see that you are a typical "Mother Teresa", then you need to urgently disaccustom everyone to regret. You are attracted to such men, because you build your feelings on pity for them, and they, in turn, use your kindness. If a guy drinks, this does not mean that he suffers from sonoaks in son-in-law. Most likely, the young man is simply weak and inescapable and instead of pulling himself together and starting to do something, he chooses the easiest way. A man can not find a job because he is simply very lazy and he does not care what will happen next with his life. So that the dames with this type of character advice one - bypass the side of those who want to be sorry and everything will go well with you.
Lady-Boss
Such women constantly complain that next to them are unmarried women, but real rags. They are simply afraid of their chosen one, they whisper in everything, they will never say too much and they will not show any character. Women are fond of the fact that a beloved man instead of becoming her protector, plaits behind her and whines, like a little dog on a leash.
Most often, such a problem arises in those who love to command. Ladies subconsciously choose the ladies, who always agree in everything, do not like to show initiative and tadaleye. Too independent and stubborn, they bypass the side. But vitoga, the situation when a man nods, like a Chinese idiot, bothers even the most arrogant commander and she starts complaining to her friends about her boyfriend or her husband, accusing him of spinelessness.
These ladies can be advised to restrain themselves in desire and always to command. If you want a man really to be around, and not a dog on a leash, then you should behave like a woman, not like the squad leader. Learn to give in to men, make compromises, give them the opportunity to take control over themselves. Of course, at first it will be difficult, but if you are really tired of the guys who are ready to kiss your heels for a love, then you will suffer a little and eventually a real cowboy will appear next to you.
Creative person
For such lofty individuals, romance is the most important category of man's habit. If he gives her flowers and composes sonnets, sings under the windows of serenade and arranges picnics at sunset, the girl just melts, mildens and is ready to follow the guy to the end of the world and live in a hut. And then she goes through time and she starts complaining about the fact that a man constantly "wags", he does not have a normal job, because he creates, and he is also slovenly, sloppy and generally unadapted to real life. And the girl no longer thinks about romance, but is angry because there is a mountain of dishes on the wall, and her young man is tearing up another picture of his unmarked picture and he has absolutely nothing to do with everyday problems.
In this case, the girls need to carefully remember the following: one romance you will not be full. Yes, it's certainly nice when a man makes beautiful gestures. But if he does them too much and too often, it is necessary to think. The fact is that real men simply can not be too romantic. This is the lot of lovely ladies who dream, worry about the heroes of serials and cry for every occasion. And the guys meanwhile are thinking how to repair the car and earn more money. If the young man's head is occupied only by romance, then it simply has no time for the ordinary life of the common man. So it turns out that in the outcome of the joint life with these guys turns into torture.
Therefore, it is better for creative people to remember that opposites rather than the like are attracted. A romantic lady should take a closer look at the men who give flowers far from every day and all the verbal love manifests itself in a short "Little, I'm Tight", and, once a little, but they are ready to work in three jobs, run to you at two in the morning, always make sure that you do not need anything. It is better to teach such a man to tell you poems and arrange romantic dinners (and this is possible, believe me) than a lifetime of suffering with a romantic who generally understands nothing in real life.
The poor little girl
And the last type of women we'll talk about is the so-called Poor Lambs. These ladies always pretend that they do not do anything and can not. Modest, quiet, just like a child, this girl always looks for help and protection from a man. She wants everyone to do everything for her and solve everything, she never tries to deal with her problems on her own and tries to max out herself from important decisions. But time passes and such a damask begins to resent that the beloved does not let her step on her own, never talks about her problems and does not pay attention to her opinion. And when she tries to show independence or offer her own option for the decision, the man misses it by ears or direct text says that this is not her business. Naturally, the girl offends this behavior, she finds a new young man and everything starts anew.
Such girls should stop trying to seem weaker than the stupider, than they really are. Yes, of course, we all want the guys to protect and protect. And what do we do with the children? - guard, protect and control everything. Even if a child tries to do something by himself, the parents perceive it as a whim and then they rewrite it anyway. In men, the same attitude toward ladies of this type. They love and take care of them, but they will not be allowed to be independent, because they simply do not believe that this person is capable of anything. Therefore, if you want your next pair to refer to as an individual, initially manifest yourself as an adult, intelligent, formed personality. And then everything will be fine.