After my thinking, I set out to understand the question: "What can a successful, modern woman and how to become, and whether it should be done at all?"
The modern world dictates its own rules to us, and if we are already in step with the times, it is better not to stop halfway. What did he (the world) do with the woman? He turned his mother and housewife, the keeper of the family hearth, into a modern independent woman who is the breadwinner of all goods and services. A woman raises children, earns money, takes care of herself, dresses beautifully, happens in various secular "parties", often smokes and "drinks", in moderation of course. No, the woman did not become a man, she simply acquired independence and some or complete independence.
Does all the success of a woman gain, or is it increasingly dragged into life's bondage? It is difficult to answer this question in the affirmative, because every person, in particular women, has his own individual needs for the soul and body. One woman, for example, copes with all the tasks she has set and can do everything easily, but the other can not pull on herself a lot of life tasks. To each his own. Although, in most cases, you have to sacrifice something. If the goal is a career, then the family and love go to a secondary place, and vice versa. Often you have to watch how, without having time to go on maternity leave, a woman as soon as possible comes back from him to do as much as possible in her career and increase the material well-being of her family. At the same time, she does not notice how her child grows up, and then over the years complains that he (the child) does not understand her at all.
Yes, it is difficult to be a truly modern woman, but, on the other hand, it's easy to be a woman in the modern world where a washing machine is washing, and semi-finished products are prepared in stores. What is needed for success? First of all, to cultivate or develop certain qualities. About them and talk.
A modern woman should be purposeful , know what she wants and for what. Clearly formulated and formulated goals are easily achieved, whether it is a successful marriage or promotion on the career ladder. A goal-oriented woman knows when she will marry, how many children she will have, and how much she will earn.
Independence is also an important quality inherent in a woman. You do not have to rely on your beloved in everything. In life, anything can happen (one can not fully and completely rely on the integrity of the second half), and in such a situation an independent woman will never be surprised. On the other hand, you do not need to be independent and independent in everything. Let and the man be a man: for example, treat you to a restaurant and pay for it.
I think every modern woman should be able to show herself, look 100% or higher . Therefore, it will never be superfluous to master the skills of make-up, understand fashion trends and attend a fitness club. Thus, a double effect is achieved: the woman looks good and receives additional positive emotions from her beauty and grooming. Additional physical exercises help to maintain the harmony of the figure, a healthy complexion and strengthen immunity, which is also important in a vibrant life rhythm.
Analyzing other qualities and skills, I found out that it is very important for a woman to be able to drive a car, know several foreign languages, get at least two higher educations, be able to flirt as necessary, be able to educate children, and smile and emit positive emotions. It's also good to master the theory of gestures , to be able to speak beautifully, walk and sit . It is also important to learn how to do three things at once and be in several places at the same time (fortunately, having a mobile connection in this way makes life much easier for us). With the maximum workload you need to learn to rest at the slightest opportunity, anywhere.
You ask, but what about the family hearth ? Whatever "takes" in her fragile woman hands she should always remain a woman - gentle, soft, feminine. A true woman is always warm and cozy in the house, smells delicious, calm and happy children.
No matter how the world changes, we remain the same. You do not need to take all the worries of this world, you need a man to be a man, and for this, a woman must remain a woman. What a successful modern woman can do depends not only on the welfare of some firm, but also on the welfare of the world's most expensive people, men and children. And even if in life you do not have time, think about whether you have told such important words to your relatives as "I love, I believe, I cherish" ... You will never earn all the money, you will not reach all the peaks, so you need to think about , as some are stated, mundane, but about the most important. The basic instinct, the result of which is the family, has not been canceled yet.
"Yes, dear, I'll be back soon." The treaty was signed, so now you can safely go to the sea, - answered, as it turned out Natalia, to her husband on a phone call. She left the cafe, got into her car and went to the dear man to be a gentle, soft, fragile and affectionate "successful modern woman" ...