1. Unplanned pregnancy . This fear takes the first place, because it is laid in us by the mother of nature and arises at a subconscious level. Almost every young girl is afraid of pregnancy, especially if she is unplanned. As a rule, in our time, unprotected sexual acts happen often. And they do not always end well. Sometimes there are consequences. The script is always almost the same: passion, scattered clothes and only at the end of hysteria from a possible "flight". And it's good if this happened with a permanent partner, in which the girl is confident and can calmly discuss everything. But after all, sometimes it happens that sex acts are unfamiliar people. With them, you will not discuss everything peacefully, let alone undivided responsibility for what happened. And even when the guy is ready to take responsibility, the following problem arises: the girl does not always see his future husband in it, let alone the father of his children. The reasons for this can be very different.
For some girls, an unplanned pregnancy does not represent a problem. They either give birth or do abortions without thinking about the consequences. But if a woman is already about thirty years old, then for her, abortion is a serious step. After this age, interruption of pregnancy can threaten infertility in the future.
Countermeasures: Always wear condoms with you. If you are not sure that at the right time you have condoms at hand, then you should think about other methods of contraception. There are many of them today. Any gynecologist can help you pick them up correctly without harming your health.
2. Do not get married . The fear of loneliness is beginning to be imposed on us by our grandmothers and relatives. Probably, every girl heard this phrase: "Look, you are getting ready. So you will stay in the girls ". It is worth noting that the fear of getting married is not only present in shy "gray mice", but also in adorable adorable girls. Before the age of 25, girls rarely think of puzzling, but afterwards they more carefully and thoughtfully look for a partner to create a family. And they choose a man they are not only in beauty, but also in intelligence, reliability, character and so on. In general, such that it was good to live.
If girls have criteria for selecting a future spouse too high, then sometimes this process drags on for dozens of years, and in the end everything becomes worse. With each passing day, the fear of being alone only increases and in time it can even grow into a hint of hysteria. In addition, even the pressure of relatives, friends, and others only exacerbate the situation.
As the statistics show, if before 35 years a woman has not found a companion for life, then it is unlikely she will look for him in the future. By this age, their worldview has already been formed and the woman understands that in principle, she is already a fully formed personality that can provide for itself. A husband is an extra responsibility, care and so on.
Countermeasures: only an in-depth analysis of the situation will help. Perhaps even you may need the help of a psychologist. The thing is that there can be a lot of reasons for the absence of a family at the age of 35. From the inner complexes of the person to the unwillingness to complicate their lives by marriage or even because of the priority of the career growth. Only after finding out the reasons it is necessary to start solving them. The main thing is to be optimistic and have the desire to change your life. It is not necessary to pay attention to others and bother with different conventions. As they say: "Love of all ages is submissive," and therefore marriage, too.
3. The fear of growing . Sooner or later, every girl starts to get frightened by the first wrinkles, stretch marks and other things that reminds of age. And this is natural. Through this every woman passes by. Increases self-discontent, self-doubt, inside wakes up envy of young girls. At this point the woman is becoming too picky to herself and irritable with fear that someone sees her wrinkles or wrinkles. Not all clothes become suitable: from a miniskirt and it is necessary to refuse at all, from a frivolous color of a blouse it is also necessary to refuse and so on.
Countermeasures: prevention is best. It is much easier to prevent than to get rid of something later. And now the question is not at all about the faculty. You need to think about a healthy lifestyle. No need to fall into depression. It will lead to nothing. After all, these are natural biological processes that occur in any organism. It does not matter how old you are. Thanks to modern cosmetology tools and procedures, you can look much younger than your age for a long time. And if you add to it a healthy lifestyle, the result will be simply stunning.
All of the above situations are caused by one fear - not to be loved. No matter how strong and independent the woman is, she still wants to be vobyatyah beloved man. For her, this is much more important than a career and the rest. That's why, ladies, you always need to take care of yourself and think ahead about the future. If you want something, then it's already worthwhile to begin to achieve this today. And most importantly - be cheerful and smile. Then you will attract the attention of men, regardless of age and appearance.