Why are we afraid to make dreams come true?

Everyone dreams about something, but not everyone is ready to translate their dreams into reality. Why is this happening? After all, it would seem, if you want something, then on the contrary, you will make every effort and go to the goal no matter what. So why do so many people never realize their dreams?


Disaster prevention

In fact, on the road leading to the realization of our wishes, obstacles often appear that are our fears. They are the ones who make us stop, drop our hands and go back. First fear, which we will talk about, is a fear of disappointment. Man is afraid to be disappointed. Moreover, this fear concerns not only frustration in oneself, but also disappointment in the dream. If we talk about the first form of fear, then it seems to us that if we can not achieve what we want with all our heart, then this will be the most shameful show. We simply all laugh, it's terrible - to be so stupid as an islabi, so that you can not get what you wanted. That's why, instead of starting to act, we often say that the dream was not such a big deal. So, a little desire, with time just disappeared. It is easier for us to give up our dreams than to try and be disappointed.

Many people really do not want to allow situations in which they will seem stupidly idiotic. And such people do not always perceive what is happening around the world. If you try to support such a person, he will consider in full that you are doing this because you consider him weak and prostitute. That's why this type of people simply does not want to give cause for others to see them as weak and broken. In fact, this approach to the case is very stupid and irrational. First, because it is your dream and your path. Therefore, no one should judge you, what would you do and how not to make a mistake. And secondly, every person can do wrong, get upset and even give up. And there is nothing terrible in that he could not achieve a dream. Perhaps he will succeed next time. And if the Internet, then it will still be happier. Dell is that fearing to be disappointed with everything, we do not notice that we are doomed to eternal torment, which will gnaw our heart to the end of life. After all, if you do not convince others, you can not deceive yourself. And if you give up a dream because of fear of disappointment, then this dream will haunt you with a shadow and you will suffer softly from not even trying to do something.

As mentioned above, a person can be afraid not only to be disappointed in himself, but also in a dream. What is it about? Sometimes it seems to us that our dream is very illusory and hyperbolized, but in fact, everything is much simpler, more primitive and not as beautiful as it seems at first glance. If you give an example, then a person can dream all his life to go to the city, where he visited only a couple of times or even saw him only in pictures. This city seems to be the crown of the architectural creation, the most cozy, beautiful, just ideal for life. And he dreams of settling there, but he does not move. Why? But because he is afraid to be disappointed. It is because of this that people are so afraid of achieving their goals and making dreams come true. If the dream is destroyed, then life loses some brightness and specialty. Unfortunately, no one thinks that our dreams are being destroyed by ourselves. Many people know how to ignore the little things and continue to perceive what they dreamed about the same way they did before the dream was fulfilled. For them, the fairy-tale town is just as fairy, no matter what. And they continue to see miracles after thirty years of living in it, because their dream has become a reality, but it has not lost its wonderful shade.

Fear of being an aimless being

Many are afraid to make their dreams come true because they do not know how they will live if they realize what they wanted. Of course, we can say that after achieving one dream, we need to set new goals, because there is no limit to perfection. But not all people are ready to find etitseli. Some people think that they really have only one dream. When it comes true, the meaning of life simply disappears and they wither away. You've probably met people who have been dreaming for decades. For example, someone wants to travel around the world. He can spend hours talking about the routes that are most interesting, dreaming about wherever he did, who he would take with him and so on. But even with opportunities, such a character never realizes his dream into reality. Why does he do this? And the fact is that having fulfilled a dream, such a person is afraid to feel emptiness in the heart. After all, he will no longer be able to plan and present, he can not invent every little thing, sort out various options and so on. And than to occupy itself instead, a person simply does not know. Even from the thought that he will have so much free time, which he can not now spend on dreams, it becomes scary. By the same, in dreams, a person can do everything, as he wishes. And in reality, some force majeures and lining will be required. And it's good if they're small. Everyone who has a dream, these thoughts appear in my head. But if some can quickly get rid of them and continue to believe that everything will be fine, that it is better to go through life in reality, and then it will be as it is, then other people can not think about the bad, so it's easier for them to pretend that their dream is unrealizable and continue to enjoy your fantasies.

In fact, the fear of fulfilling a dream is inherent in many people. But if some understand that it is necessary to struggle with it and try to overcome their fear, others consider such reactions to be completely normal, therefore they do absolutely nothing. People who know how to do what they want, for good reason, say that there can be no unrealizable dream, just many are afraid to put it into practice. Although, in this case, one can argue, for, for example, a person can dream of someone returning from the other world. Therefore, it will be better to say that there are almost no unfulfilled wants. And if you want to receive something in this world, you can beat when you drop all your fears. After all, life does not like cowards at all, amechta fly away from them, like beautiful butterflies, which give an opportunity to see themselves, but not to catch.