It is believed that the age at which a man begins to actively reflect on a serious relationship and marriage, this age for thirty - 35-37. This does not mean that they are getting married, mostly at this age. This means only that only after this age they begin to create more or less strong marriages.
Single and universal answers to the question of which women men prefer for a serious relationship, no. In psychology there is an opinion that every man and every woman on this earth has his own second half. It sounds romantic, but there is also a cynical aspect: the other halves that God or fate created for us, maybe more than one. This means that if someone thinks that he has lost the love of his life, this is a temporary phenomenon. Usually both men and women have in their heads a clear image of the future life partner, which, in their opinion, is ideal for a serious relationship. This image was written off in early childhood with the next of kin of the opposite sex, and in the teenage age polished at the expense of idols among musicians, actors, television stars. And dozens, or even hundreds of thousands of people of the opposite sex, are quite suitable for this image.
In the most common case, the image of the future ideal wife of a man is copied from his mother. But this is not a rigid pattern. Each child, starting with 4-5 years of age, has its own "main adult". This person is usually the opposite sex, which is the moral, psychological, emotional standard of the future lover. If the boy is somewhat dissatisfied with the relationship with the mother, afraid of her, or abandoned by her for the sake of a career in nannies, he can make another woman his childish ideal. It can be a nanny, a teacher, an aunt or a grandmother. If you want to study the preferences of a particular man, try to find out who was the main woman of his early childhood, and on whom he still dreamed of getting married when he was a preschool child. Questions about what kind of actresses and models or singers he likes, will also be superfluous. Note that the characteristics of the mother and the main adult give an idea of the preferred behavior and character of the lady, and the features of the beloved television star more often reflect the preferences in the field of your man's appearance.
In principle, how many men, so many ideals of the wife exist. However, there are still attempts to create a typology of women, which men choose to marry. Let's try to understand what kind of woman men prefer for serious relationships, watching their own behavior.
Romantic
Such a man believes that in the family should be in the forefront of sensuality, sentimentality. They value strong feelings, peace of mind and balance. They apprehend with horror some initiatives in bed, if they are not served beautifully, exquisitely, gracefully and romantically. Pragmatic issues for them - in the tenth place. So if you are morally ready to marry such a man, you will have to put up with his antics, when he will give you a bucket of roses, bought for the whole salary.
Male-parent
Despite all the emancipation, there are still quite a few men who consider the basis of love - custody. Men prefer this type of capricious, infantile women, who often on social status are much lower. The wife of a man-parent should be younger than him, less educated, less successful, from a poorer environment. Such men easily marry visiting visitors from neighboring republics or from a remote province. They love to educate everyone around, and the wife must be obedient to the lady, patiently carry out his even the most ridiculous instructions, listen to moral teachings.
A man is a "child"
This is a nice man who is able to make the life of the spouse cheerful, joyful, spontaneous. His openness and sociability conquers everyone around, he easily becomes the center of attention in any company. Sometimes it gives the impression of henpecked, ready to wear a wife in her arms and carry out all her valuable instructions. This is a slightly deceptive impression, because the authority in the character of such a man is also there. She's simply veiled by vagaries, a picture of helplessness and helplessness that provokes a woman to take on more family responsibilities. In such men, preference for appearance is usually clearly defined - they like full, large ladies. Often marrying women older than themselves, with children from their first marriage. And they become in the house one more adult child.
Rationalist
To conquer such a man, one must have an iron discipline, well-developed logic and almost complete absence of spontaneous emotions. Usually such a man does not drink at all, does not smoke, seldom suffers from vices in the form of gambling or enthusiasm by friendly companies. Everything carries in the house, but also from the wife demands the same. Behind him, the woman feels like behind a stone wall. That's just sentimentality, words about love, and just talking heart to heart with such a man should not wait.
Independent egoist
A complex type of men who ideally fits very smart and successful in career women. He knows how not to put pressure on his wife, not to demand from her a seat at home, often does not envy her successes, is not jealous of her colleagues. But he also demands a similar attitude towards himself. Such a man prefers to keep a distance with everyone around, and any encroachments on his personal space shock him.
The lover of equality
Women themselves have long struggled for equal rights with men. Now we have to clear up. Quite a lot of men are looking for an equal partner. They want his wife to work as much as he does, but they are ready to help around the house, in the kitchen. Such men do not want to take on the financial security of the family. Often they try to introduce separate budgets for the wife and husband, and for the family each is formed in certain proportions. It makes no sense to try to force such a man to give you expensive gifts and fulfill your whims. For some time he will endure it, then he will go look for that woman who likes him. Fortunately, in our time problems with this in men does not arise.