If your daughter is in love with an actor, first, instead of being nervous and worried, analyze the situation and determine all the pluses.
Manifestation of Love
So, what is the love for the actor? Often, this looks like buying posters, browsing all the films or serials with him in a circle, searching for any information. The girl seems to be fixated on this person. But we also behave when we fall in love with someone real: we want to constantly see this person and all about him to know. So the behavior of your child can hardly be called inadequate. Simply, when all the emotions are directed not at the boy who sits at the next desk, but on the person living at a distance of hundreds or even thousands of kilometers, the adult seems to be a stranger.
Influence of the actor on the girl
Now let's talk about whether the actor or character is (after all, it often happens that falling in love with an actor is more a love of the personage he is performing), positive or negative. And, even if it is, for example, a vampire, do not immediately write it down in the category of villains. After all, perhaps, on the development of the plot, he manifests himself as a noble knight, changes for the better and shows himself as a hero who is ready to go for everything for the sake of a loved one. So, first of all, sort out, in kogovublena your daughter. And in any case, do not criticize it, especially if you really do not understand what the actor or his person is. It is possible that thanks to such love, the girl learns something of a life's wisdom. Therefore, it would be superfluous to read an interview with this man, to find out what thoughts he propagates. If you see that this person is saying the right things and promotes kindness, honesty, respect, the desire to achieve something with his work and so on, then you definitely can not worry. After all, since for your child he is currently the standard, the daughter will listen to the words of the beloved actor and do as he says.
But in cases where the child's favorite is clearly an incorrect way of life and propagates his behavior, roughly speaking, "sex, drugs and rock and roll," you need to be alert. Just do not rush to tear off all the posters and blame this person for mortal sins. Remember that your daughter is a teenager. At this age, we all hyperbolize and perceive everything "with bayonets." Therefore, instead of prohibiting the child, takshazat, love the actor, just talk to her, find out how she relates to her addictions and so on. If the girl herself condemns it, then there's nothing to worry about. But in the case when she takes his side and tells you that it's so cool to live, try to calm her down. But anyway, in any case, never push on the girl and do not show your sharply negative attitude to her idol.
Developed by the
If your daughter is in love with a truly talented and adequate person, then such feelings can be a stimulus for the development of the creative vein in the child. Quite often it happens that after being carried away by some actor, the girls begin to draw his portraits, compose poems and stories, write songs. And after all it is fine, because thanks to such hobby, the girl can really open in itself the creative beginning about which she and was not guessed, having appeared the talented poetess or the fine singer. So, noticing that your daughter is writing some poems or is coming up with a new melody, do not laugh at her at all and do not say that this is a whim. Let the self develop. Then the love for the actor will pass, and the desire to create will remain forever. But when parents start laughing at the hobbies of their children, often girls simply refuse any hobbies and hobbies, start to consider themselves stupid primitive, unable to do something interesting and special. So, before you say something to your daughter, think carefully. After all, if this seems like an innocent joke, then the words for the child will be very offensive and hurt in the heart.
"Safe" love
When mothers begin to worry about the love of their daughter, they rarely think about the fact that this form of love is the most secure. Of course, if a girl does not seriously run away from home and does not rush to look for a loved one and marry him. But since most teenagers are in love with foreign actors, this variant of events is the least likely. If your girl just sits at home and writes love letters "to the table," then you, in fact, are very lucky. After all, in this case, your daughter will not break the heart and not offend. If she was so selflessly in love with a real guy, especially a senior in age, then everything could end badly. And so, having no real access to a person, a girl simply learns to love, without losing anything at all. Of course, it seems to her that she is suffering and her feelings are very strong, but in fact the years will pass and your daughter will understand that this love was the purest, brightest and painless. After all, she loved the invented man, who gave special, ideal for themselvesquality. And he could not disappoint her in any way. Such an idealization of images is relevant to almost all female representatives, but only if the person is real, then, most likely, in the end, he simply breaks all dreams and hopes. But the actor on the poster will always remain as the girl sees it. He will not offend, will not offend, will not humiliate and laugh at her feelings.
Therefore, summing up, it can be said that the love of a vaktor is almost always not a problem. On the contrary, such a sense of a certain period of time protects your child from the real world and real love, which is very cruel. But when the love passes, the girl will grow up and be able to look more realistically at people and situations.