What if your husband is emotionally cold?

There are men in our lives who do not show any feelings. These are called emotionally cold. Men like soldiers do not know how to express their emotions and feelings correctly. They are as cold as an iceberg. You do not know how to melt their heart so that they will come to life. They show their coldness in the following way: they never talk about their feelings, they do not have any tenderness or words on their part.

Such men will never admit to love, and if they say it once, they will never repeat it. Having received joyful news they have a stone face or the same emotions as usual. They never make romantic surprises. They have the same reaction to all the good that you tell them. Even on a walk the same emotions, as if they were frozen. Yes, any woman can define an emotionally cold man. She does not even need any literature to understand what's wrong with him. Such people lack a sense of emotion.

It happens that a woman is very emotional, that she goes beyond limits, so she thinks her husband is emotionally cold. Let's try to understand why men become so cold.

The first reason for this is a poor childhood. As a child, they probably did not get the love, attention and affection that should have been. Perhaps the parents did not approve of their actions, underestimated, never hugged. These signs could lead to such coldness. In such cases, women should help them get out of this "cocoon", melt their heart. Since they did not receive love in childhood, they do not know how to show them.

The second reason is their past grievances. Probably in the past, someone offended them, betrayed them and thereby wounded their fragile heart. Therefore, they decided to never again show those feelings that, in their opinion, they destroyed.

Women should think how they show their love in general? Maybe they do not show their feelings, but somehow their actions they are trying to make up for this lack. Such people always keep their promises.

It happens that men do not love their woman and do not show any feelings. If, nevertheless, she decided to fight for him, then she should know what to do categorically with emotionally cold men. Never need to answer them in the same coin or words. Do not wrangle with them. Never throw them in the face of their coldness, it can offend and lead to a break in the relationship. They know how you love them and how you show your feelings, but they can not also show you their feelings.

If one day they confess to you in love or show some emotion, never tell them that like "finally you said it", as this can hurt them and they can close in themselves. It's better just to kiss and say something pleasant. Just support.

If they do not show any emotion, then do for them what you would like them to do for you. Love them, give them gifts, take care of them. Do everything possible so that they know that you love them as they are. Maybe one day they will "wake up" and thank you for all your efforts.