Under the influence of hormones in the body of a woman there are some changes. These changes also affect the sexual desire of a pregnant woman. It is then intensified, it is completely extinguished. Of course, if a woman before pregnancy was initially very passionate and active in sex, then during pregnancy she will show considerable initiative. This fact, most likely, concerns women waiting for boys, because in their body more male harmonics. If a woman wears a girl, then sexual activity is likely to be low.
In the first trimester, the desire of a pregnant woman often weakens. Then it affects the toxicosis, and the languid, drowsy condition of a woman, nausea. Tastes change and start to irritate all kinds of smells, whether it's the smell of cooked food or the smell of a once-beloved cologne of a man. The pain in the mammary glands is constantly observed. In general, the pregnant woman becomes very emotional during this period, cries more often, reacts inappropriately to ordinary everyday situations. Her man, of course, frightens all these changes, more often there are quarrels, reproaches and resentments. It seems that it will only get harder. But in fact, the further the pregnancy takes, the woman becomes easier.
The second trimester gives the future mother the first pleasant warm feelings from contact with her own child. On the 18-20th week the wiggling of the fetus begins. Pregnant calms down, let go of old fears and phobias. She is sure that everything is in order with the child. Yes, and well-being is noticeably improving. It becomes, the stomach is visible, and the man already finally concludes with the future role of the father. It is in the second trimester that sex is good and useful. The cases of miscarriage by this moment are already excluded, the fetus is attached to the uterus, and nothing will prevent future parents from enjoying each other and experiencing the second honeymoon.
In the third trimester the sexual relations of the spouses are again undergoing a decline. This happens for a number of reasons. The woman's big belly prevents her from not only sleeping, but also hugging a man, there is pain during sex. Changes occur in the psychological state of women. She is afraid of childbirth, and this negatively affects her attraction to a man. A man also gets a lot of worries. We need to determine the maternity hospital, where the baby will appear, buy a stroller, a crib. By the third trimester, his sexual activity also falls because of the first problems that have come up on him, related to the upcoming birth of his wife. A man needs to try during this period to be attentive, affectionate with his pregnant woman, in everything to give in to her, to do a back massage, which will bring a pleasant sensation to the woman and will positively affect the fetus.
There are also positive moments of sex during pregnancy:
- A woman does not need to be protected, there is no fear, to become pregnant.
- During sex, a woman gets rid of negative emotions.
- Pregnant substances are necessary, which are contained in the sperm: male hormones and enzymes.
- Hormones of happiness, which gets pregnant from sex, have a positive effect on the fetus.
The reasons for which it is better to give up sex during pregnancy:
- Threatening miscarriage.
- Bleeding from the vagina.
- When the placenta is low.
- Multiple pregnancy.
- Oral sex and manipulation with the vagina are forbidden.