Oral sex.
Now it is difficult to imagine that someone else can be embarrassed by such a trifle. Oral sex has long been an indispensable attribute of intimate lask. But, it turns out, even in our time there are people who consider oral sex to be unacceptable. Usually this is a consequence of excessively strict upbringing in the family. Parents usually suggest to children that sex and everything connected with it is, if not dirty, then it is terribly indecent. It is not customary to talk about this, to discuss the problems too. Therefore, stamps are formed that interfere with enjoying adulthood.
If you are confused by the lack of experience, then you can solve this problem only in one way - to try and try. Some people train on bananas before showing their skills to a living man. If your fear is caused by constraint, then start with the usual kisses, go down lower and lower. Do not hurry and do not tune yourself to exploits. If you are very shy, turn off the light. In the dark a lot will not seem so unacceptable.
If the partner is too persistent, then you can control the depth of penetration yourself, putting your hand on the base of the penis.
Anal sex.
This area is still banned for many couples. Someone considers such sex dirty, someone is sure that this does not bring pleasure and in general, is harmful.
You should know that anal sex is not to everyone's liking, and there's nothing to worry about if you do not like it. Try it and find out if you need it. In order for this experience to be successful, you must completely trust your partner. Such sex is not for casual relationships, especially if you do not have experience.
Practice at first the usual caresses around the anus, and you carefully watch your sensations. If you still decide on sex, do not feel sorry for the lubricant and control the depth of penetration. As soon as you get hurt, everything needs to stop or at least stop.
Toys from the sex shop.
If you are very romantic especially, then the offer to use intimate toys, can shock you. Yes, there is no romance in them, they are too frank. But is it worth it to be embarrassed by your desires?
In order for the new experience you liked, ask your beloved man to organize a very romantic foreplay. Let the night begin the way you like - beautiful lingerie, candles, champagne, massage. When you reach the highest peak of pleasure, you will be ready to use additional stimulants. The more you are excited, the more you will like this experience.
Start with the use of something not too extreme, and replenish the stock gradually. Do not start with the use of frightening aggregates, whose purpose is not clear to you.
Sex outside the home.
If you at least once watched an erotic film, then, probably, remember that the scenes where the characters make love in a movie theater or car are very popular. On the screen it all really looks beautiful. In life, it's very difficult to decide, besides, it's very scary to be caught unawares.
To begin with, you should know that this is not at all a sign of perversion or corruption, it's just an attempt to gain new powerful sensations. This is a sign of concern for your relationship. Find a place outside the house where you will be at the maximum distance from prying eyes. It is not necessary to do this in a fitting room or in a park in the middle of the city, because there are less extreme places.
If one of you prefers sex outside the home to a normal intimacy, perhaps you should reconsider your relationship, because someone will always have to compromise.
In sex, in fact, there is nothing vicious and dirty if it is liked by both. Experiments can serve as prevention of change, they really work to strengthen relationships. So is it worth it to be frightened of what millions of people have found pleasure in?