So, it's worth starting with, then kindness is one of the best features of human nature. In fact, it's not so easy to be kind and not every man is kind. Unfortunately, kindness in the modern world brings troubles. People who are too kind, try to manipulate many and many. That is why kindness is regarded as a sign of weak character, not realizing that a good person does this not because he is weak, but because he is simply sorry for everyone. In fact, human kindness is a sign that a guy is capable of real feelings. He can love not only himself, but others. Also, it often happens that kindness is a sign of courage. The fact is that good people do not tolerate injustice, and, therefore, always try to protect the weak and do everything to win the one who is right. With a congenital weakness, a person will never rush to protect the weak and offended. He will try to hide behind other people's backs, if only not to suffer. Therefore, in a weak character, one should never see kindness. Moreover, a weak person is sometimes a deceitful and vile individual who tries to survive by any means and is ready to go to anything so long as no one touches him. If a man has a good heart, this does not mean that he is a rag that never raises his head and does everything he orders. On the contrary, good men are not always calm. Kindness does not prevent them from being quick-tempered, finding out their relations, being indignant and angry. A good man will never hurt anyone for nothing. But, this does not mean at all that he will remain silent if he sees injustice or if someone will be impartial in speaking out to him or towards his relatives. Many for some reason it seems that a good guy will never be able to give change. Thinking of such a person, everyone for some reason represents a thin, pale boy who literally bends from the light breeze like a stunted tree. In fact, this view is completely wrong. Bodybuilders and weightlifters are also kind. And, if it is not visible by their appearance, it does not mean that such people hate the whole world and constantly try to cripple someone, or even kill. On the contrary, they always uphold justice and show cruelty only where it is necessary. By the way, good people can be cruel. This is not nonsense at all. Cruelty and kindness can easily get along in the character of one person. Just such people show their cruelty is not often and not everyone. They know how to restrain themselves, so as not to offend those who are not guilty of anything. But, while the guilty will always be punished in all severity. The man who guilty before such a guy will never guess that he is, in fact, good-natured.
In fact, girls who have good guys are very lucky in life. The fact is that good-natured people are always more concerned about their loved ones, try to make them something pleasant, pay attention to their desires and opinions. For a good person, loved ones and relatives are often more important than himself. Therefore, he is ready to turn the mountains and turn the world, if only to those who are with them, it was fun, good and comfortable. For good-natured people, the happiness of others is most important. It's these guys that protect strangers from hooligans and transfer grandmothers across the street. They do this not to assert themselves and to prove something to someone, but simply because they feel sorry for people. They act so exclusively on the kindness of the soul and never, do not ask for anything. This is the distinctive feature of good people - to do something unselfishly and not get angry when you do not get a similar in replacement. Also, a good guy will never raise his hand to a girl and will not offend her, unless she leads him to white heat. Such men are excellent husbands and wonderful friends. They can always listen, try to give advice. Help and support. Such people do not substitute and do not quit in difficult situations. They do not believe in gossip and do not trust rumors. Of course, if they are really good, and do not hide under such a mask. There are men who pretend to be good-hearted to win the favor of the girls. Such young people admire nature, squeeze kittens and puppies, adore children and are constantly trying to do something good. But, all this takes place for show. In fact, they lie arrogantly, just to achieve their goal. Therefore, never confuse a really good person and someone who tries to be so, to attract the attention of a girl.
Good guys need to be valued and never use their kindness, because such an attitude disappoints them in life and breaks them down. It may happen that a good man, after all, will want to be evil and willfully refuse this character trait. Of course, no one can completely refuse, but many people can hide their kindness. And it's very sad to look at, as a guy tortures himself and spoils the opinion of others about his person.
And if the man who is next to you can do nothing, is shy and afraid of everything, you should not call him "kind." He does not deserve it. He's just spineless and it's easier for him to put someone under bullets than to try and correct the situation himself. Such people, often, are not at all kind. They just do not have enough willpower, that's not protecting themselves. And good people, more often than not, are wise and even when they are silent, this is not due to fear, but because they do not want to squander life energy on the unworthy.