Women have a special instinct - intuition. If she goes late at night with a young man on a dark alley and imagines that they are being attacked by bandits, and at the same time experiencing a feeling of fear, insecurity, then next to her "not a hero." Strangely enough, this check always helps to understand if a man can protect you.
Modern times sometimes change men and women in places. It is no longer surprising if the husband does household chores, prepares dinner, educates children, and the wife earns money. No one will be surprised if the head of the family is his wife and dictates his rules to the husband.So, let's get down to the reasons why the girls choose bad guys. And, how can you distinguish such a "hooligan" from "Mama's son".
Clothing.
Strangely enough, but good guys choose good, homely, discreet clothes. Or, on the contrary, too businesslike and faceless. For all this external "chic" they hide their insecurity in themselves, not the opportunity to interest the girl herself, and take off just bored.
Bad guys look great even in sports clothes, old jeans and a stretched T-shirt. You feel their inner strength, attractiveness, self-confidence. They do not need a "shell", they are in themselves integral and interesting interlocutors.
A responsibility.
Good guys try not to make decisions, not to take responsibility. At work, they most likely do not occupy a leading position that requires all of this. It's you choose a restaurant, a place for your date and what clothes to buy. They suffer by shifting responsibility to others.
Bad guys always decide where and when to meet with you, are not afraid of responsibility and serious decisions. Even if they are wrong, they boldly admit their mistakes and correct them.
Meetings with you.
Good guys will try to meet with you when you are all right. When you have no problems at work, at home, you have a great mood, they are always there. If you have a problem, then, most likely, you will not see your young man very long. He will not even listen to your problems, not that to help.
Bad guys are always ready to help everyone and always, the more beloved girl. Even if the problem is not solved, the bad guy will definitely try. After all, he is a hero!
Influence of parents.
Numerous grandmothers, moms, dads and aunts take an active part in the life of a good guy. They chose the institute to which he entered. It was they who arranged for him to work. And they will climb with their advice in your relationship.
If you do not like any of the relatives or friends of a good guy, be prepared for the fact that he will part with you under the influence of someone else's opinion. Just a good guy is very prone to someone else's opinion, because he does not have his own. And to live a "foreign head" is easier than your own.
The opposite situation will be with the bad guy. If you do not like his mother or friends, he will be more tender and tender about you. And in general, he has long been deciding for himself and for all parental "lectures", he answers that he will figure it out. He loves when his path faces difficulties that need to be overcome.
Ability to express your opinion.
Good guys almost always agree with what they say, because they can not defend their opinion, if, of course, there is one. Moreover, if the interlocutor is higher and more than three times. They will not provoke another man to fight. Silently agree, and change the subject for conversation.
Bad guys always say what they think. They are not afraid of conflicts and fights. They are not afraid to defend their position.
Life position.
Good guys do not take action to change or improve their lives. They just go with the flow. And in 200 years they will work in the same office in the same office. Good guys have a picture in their head, to which they aspire.
Bad guys live for today, can dramatically change their lives, accept people as they are. They are not upset by any events, and they boldly look to the future.