It is necessary to understand which women attract men to family life, and then find out what you need to change in yourself so that your family relationships are long and happy.
Very mistaken are those women who believe that for men, the choice of a life partner is her appearance and figure. In fact, men appreciate and love a woman, if she is self-confident, independent, kind, tries to understand the partner. Work on yourself to bring yourself closer to the image of an ideal wife.
Remember some tips that you can take as a guide.
A man always remains a man. And he is pleased to see next to a woman who cares for herself and always looks great. Nothing raises a man's self-esteem, like the envy of others to his wife.
In the company of his friends, partners or family, be cheerful and pleasant in communication. But, do not forget that your man is the best. Let him understand this.
Understanding! Here is the most important thing that is necessary for a strong family relationship. Learn to understand your husband so that in the future there are no critical moments.
A man is always pleased to realize that his wife is very clever. The opinion that the male population is afraid and avoiding stupid women is the lot of losers. With an intelligent person, there is always something to talk about. And he will not be ashamed to go out with you.
Men appreciate women's sense of humor.
In addition to the spouse, naturally, in your life there are also relatives, colleagues, friends. But, in no case, do not allow non-family relations to interfere with your husband's personal space .
Agree, like being an ideal wife and building a wonderful family relationship is not so difficult. But, we examined what qualities men love in women. And what irritates them in us?
Men are very sensitive to the flirtation of the wife and his friends. Even if he is not Othello, then do not flirt with his friends. Since you put it in a very difficult situation: on the one hand there is no desire to quarrel with a friend, on the other - there is no desire to quarrel with you. When you are both in the company, you should not criticize a man. For your spouse you must be support and support. Leave your claims until the moment when you are alone.
Do not advise in the presence of a man to get involved in facial masks, winding hair curlers. And, even more so, it's not worth it in such a straightforward, not sexually explicit way, go to bed with your husband. To put yourself in order, get up better half an hour earlier. Take care of the male psyche.
Leave alone a man with eternal questions: "Do you love me?". Otherwise, it is likely that your gentle and fluffy spouse will turn into a monster.
It is known that men are not big lovers of cleaning in the apartment. We'll tell you a secret, to observe the process of general cleaning, which you started on the weekend, it gives even less pleasure.
In fact, a man can be angered by any inadequate detail from your side. And, if you really asked the question, "what should be the family relationship?" And set a goal - to become an ideal wife.
Then, it is worth listening to your spouse and his desires. But, and it is committed to change yourself, it's also not worth it. After all, your spouse fell in love with you as you are. And if one day he does not recognize you and he does not like your new image, then who knows what your marriage can end.