As you know, all relationships in their beginning are shrouded in a light tinsel of emotions, feelings, interest and excitement. At the first stage, everyone is happy and just want to be with each other. And there are no problems at all - he remembers your birthday, calls, almost every hour, and every date is shrouded in a romantic mood. In other words: there are no complaints against each other and everything goes on, "like clockwork." But in time the irreparable can happen, and you will look at your lover in a completely different way. And all because of the fact that he has changed, and his feelings have cooled. In such moments, men usually start to call very rarely, and justify this with a constant lack of time or just fatigue at work. If you are trying to find out what is going on, the man will most often take a "fighting position" and in nervous form will explain to you that he does not have time even for himself, not to mention you. By the way, accusing you of misunderstanding is, please, but to talk about your problems or what really bothers him really is "not a man's business". What you will say, as you know, a man who loves, always seeks to talk with his beloved woman about his "secret" and sore. But, if he has withdrawn in himself, there are all chances that his feelings for you have cooled. What to do if the feeling of a man has cooled and how to behave in this situation to a woman?
First of all, it is not necessary to draw cardinal conclusions that lead to a stupid panic and complete chaos in the soul. Just try to find the right moment and talk with your lover. By the way, during a conversation you do not need to put pressure on your lover and try to get an answer from him on the question asked by you. Remember that men do not like it when they are crushed, so you really will not achieve anything by shouting and hysteria. In the event that a man avoids communication and does not contact you, stop impose himself. Men always flee from those ladies who try to "force" to impose themselves. Just have pride and know yourself the price. Think about the fact that this man is "not the first and not the last" in your life and even more so in the world. So humiliate and pray for a conversation - it's not women's business. And anyway, if he avoids the conversation, give him time. Let him sit for a while at home, ponder, understand himself and his feelings, and then look and he will come out of his "field shelter" for a frank conversation with you. Pause - this is another effective way to understand yourself, remember the past feelings and, what is not even ruled out, become bored.
By the way, while a man is thinking about "to be or not to be," you do not need to hang the image of a lonely and unhappy woman at this moment. Try to lead your usual lifestyle. Work, friends, favorite hobby is all that will help you to distract from the unpleasant feeling of "waiting." In addition, your boyfriend will certainly, through mutual acquaintances, be interested in the way you live at the moment of "the silence of your relationship". And having learned about how successful you are in all directions and deeds, and especially among the other guys, this will certainly hit him alive. Do not forget that sometimes the feelings of a man can be returned, aroused in him a sense of jealousy and a desire to fight for you. Give him this opportunity, and the result will not take long.
Another important detail is your appearance. Try to change it radically to the very best. Visit the best beauty salon, solarium, expensive boutique and just relax from everyday routine. It is quite possible that your new image will kindle a feeling in the heart of a man with an even stronger flame.
And now a few words about phone calls. Try not to call him and not get bored with constant questions about how he and what will happen next. Want to - he will call! If he began to call himself on a regular basis, then everything turned out well, and his critical period in his life passed. But the initiative must still come from him. Therefore, it is not necessary to immediately run and rush to his neck. Invite him to meet somewhere in a neutral territory or, for example, a park where you once sat holding your hand and looked at the starry sky. Such places are able to dispel all doubts, if those, of course, remained with the man and push him one step closer to you.
And the last thing, if your man's feelings have cooled to you because he had another woman in his head, and he just got confused and does not know with whom he should stay. Our advice: run from such a man where far away and do not even think about that "but suddenly he will choose you ...". It's one thing if a guy knows what he really wants from life, and the other, when he is suffering and can not make a choice. In other words, this is not a man. What a guarantee that in time, even if he comes back to you, his feelings will not lose their meaning because of the new woman. So draw conclusions, dear ladies.
Drawing a line under all of the above, I want to tell you that in order for your feelings to always be strong and never cool, always try to give each other much attention, do not be afraid to change, experiment and as often as possible to say the words about love. Only in this case there is a full guarantee that between you no "chill" will not run, and you will save your feelings for many years. Love and be loved, and most importantly, appreciate your man and your loved one will certainly answer the same, making you the happiest person in the world. Good luck to you!