You meet not so long ago, and here's a groom invited you to visit a cafe or a restaurant. Feel free to agree that this will help you to find out your companion better!
If a man proposes only to drink coffee, he is either not too secure, or too cautious . However, this is not a reason to stop the relationship. Perhaps your partner at the moment is interested not so much food as communication with you.
He leads you to the cheapest cafe, although the funds in principle allow and something more expensive . Think about how seriously he treats you? Perhaps this man does not expect a serious relationship, and therefore does not want to spend money.
He makes the order himself, not asking what exactly you want . Most likely, you have a self-confident egoist. He will do the same in his life together. You can try to re-educate him. When you bring the dishes, do not try to touch them demonstratively or take a little dig in the plate and set it aside. If your partner asks what's the matter, explain that you do not eat it. Next time he will probably inquire about your desire.
He first makes an order for himself, and only then he pulls out the menu to you . The hidden egoist. He tries to reconcile with the need to reckon with others, but he does not do it well. Next time take the initiative in your hands. Say: "Darling, can I be the first to order?".
He orders the most expensive dishes . It is not excluded that your gentleman expects an intimate continuation of the meeting on the principle: "Whoever is eating dinner, he dances!" If you are not ready for this, it is better to arrange all the points above the "u" even before you start the meal. Explain that today you will go home to yourself, and not to him.
He gives you orders for meals, but at the same time he hints that he does not have enough money . Be on your guard! Most likely, before you skuperdyay. When cohabiting, he will count every penny and constantly reprimand you for extra spending.
He says that he forgot his wallet, and asks you to pay . Bad sign! If this is your first joint trip to a cafe or restaurant, then, obviously, you are faced with a secret alfonso or simply cunning, who decided to treat at your expense. If such an option does not suit you, do not continue the relationship.
He agrees beforehand with you that everyone pays for himself . Such a calculating man is quite suitable for meetings, but hardly suitable for family life. He is clearly not ready to take responsibility for someone else.
He orders alcohol . Be carefull! It is not excluded that your gentleman abuses alcohol or just wants to give you water. Although, if the order includes only a glass of light wine, then it's okay.
After several meetings, he never invited you anywhere, at the best, getting off with street pies and ice cream? In all likelihood, your fan is either terribly stingy, or poor as a church mouse. If you still value relationships, you can invite him somewhere yourself. But then you will have to pay for the table yourself.
"Restaurant" test can be subjected to a woman.
So, if a lady chooses an expensive institution or orders a lot of food , she certainly tries to spin you on money or check your solvency.
If she gives you to make an order yourself - you have a modest woman who is not used to going to restaurants, and generally to male attention. Decide whether you need it or not. Perhaps not the worst option.
At the table, she chooses the cheapest dishes? You may find it commendable that you want to save, but there is a risk that in the family life it will be very miserly.
Does your companion almost eat nothing? In all likelihood, she is charging herself, she wants to be persuaded. If you are seriously interested in this person, you can try to persuade her.
The lady insists that everyone pay for themselves? She obviously does not want to be obligated to you. Building a relationship will not be easy.
She pays for lunch or dinner herself? This person is used to getting what she wants. If you like to be a toy in female hands, then accept its rules.
Enjoy your date!
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