How to raise the mood for sex with her husband

Life, home, work, children, problems, illnesses ... All this prevents you from getting a full pleasure from what, for what purpose, actually, couples are created. Sex becomes a stumbling block, about which many happy families and strong alliances are broken. "How to raise the mood for sex with her husband?" - ask themselves wives. "Do you need this?" - those who are sexually unwell are tormented ... The problem of sex in the family

Nature is so arranged that we experience the brightest attraction to each other only for a certain period. As the scientists suggest, the development of the appropriate substances that cause euphoria and like intoxication from each other, some stop three months after they met, some only three years later. But sooner or later this moment comes. And then the ladies, who in general are usually less dependent on sex, begin to ask themselves: how to set yourself up for sex with your husband, how to find that most erotic mood?

Our body

Naturally, much depends on the state of the body. After all, with a sore knee or become a talk in the streets (and at the same time a topic for numerous anecdotes), the headache is hard to feel something other than pain. It's not that attraction - the emotion is subtle and ephemeral, but you will not feel the very specific smell of burnt chops! So, if the body is already working "out of last strength," then what kind of sex (which is the instinct of reproduction) can we talk about? The body is trying to escape, and to experience unnecessary stress to him to anything!

Therefore, try not to break yourself, trying to raise the mood for sex with her husband - still it will turn out quite cruelly, like with a frigid woman. Passionate woman because passionate - she has something to show, she is able to "show off" in her lust before her beloved man.

So, before the free time, which you would like to dedicate to your husband and, most importantly, yourself, having sex:

• There are no later than an hour before, but do not starve yourself (at the risk of giving out in the passionate silence among the oohs and sighs the "march of the hungry stomach");
• Do not drink diuretics (to them, incidentally, belongs and loved by many green tea), refrain from liquids (quite unpleasant distracted from the romantic moment on the trip to the toilet);
• Make sure (listen to yourself, since the doctors in the clinic frankly "freeze") that you feel good.

"Remove the children from the screen!"

The next, not less subtle moment - psychological. Alas, our psyche is so arranged that sexual adventures in the entrance or risk of being caught by the mother we practice for the time being. To some, of course, and after you want thrills, but in any case, our children are not guilty of our inconveniences. Therefore, if there is a risk that the child will return from school sooner, it is better to postpone sex until Saturday, when (according to a tradition in advance) you send children to visit your grandmother. After all, in such conditions, when a woman does not feel calm and protected, it is difficult to try to somehow adjust herself to having sex with her husband.

Time Boundaries

"What do we have in time? Sex break? "

It could be a great phrase from melodrama about an unhappy wife or prelude to the film of the genre "Three X". But in real life to adjust themselves to sex with her husband, when for him there are exactly fifteen minutes, it is unrealistic. A woman feels used or even in some way flawed when she is brazenly and unceremoniously "crammed" into such a time frame. As if she was the chef in the restaurant and had to fulfill someone's order.

A book should be ordered by a woman - although they say that the main point in sex depends on men. Of course, over time, her husband's libido subsides (especially compared with the times of turbulent youth). But this does not mean that you should look into the eyes and "catch" those cherished 2-5 minutes when he wanted.

"Ten minutes, normal flight!"

A woman in general is difficult in sex. If a man's desire disappears, most of the sex, as a rule, stops. And she may want at some point, and after a couple of minutes his caresses become disgusting. And now he is changing the direction of thought, and again it's good ... How can you set yourself up for sex with your husband when you always like something, then do not like it to the horror?

Have to talk. Have to explain and prompt. At least the first time, when you realize that it's you - a lioness, a tigress, a predator. You get your own, and half-measures (okay, I'll stand for you, dear, because otherwise you arrange me) - are inappropriate. Extraction is something permanent, this is what satisfies (predators have hunger). And what kind of initial hunger can there be, if you usually "tolerate", thinking that it's time to paint the ceiling?

The main motto of a woman in bed

In many areas, a woman has the right to remain nice, kind, fluffy and sympathetic. She can, according to one writer, "pour milk." But sex - this is the territory where it's time to wear an armored bra, to grow teeth and claws. And it is in sex, the motto for a woman is to choose the short word "Take!"

The Russian language, of course, throws a paradox. "Give", "give", and even very rough - "davalka." But this is not so! Men are more fond of what they invest in. So, it's time to take. And as soon as you get used to what is "for you", and you just need to come and take - sex will become a joy. Even unplanned. Even unusual. Perhaps inappropriate or obscene. And you will not have to adjust. It will only be time to figure out exactly what you would like today ...