In general, if you combine all the questions into one, perhaps the most important, it will sound like this: "How to communicate with your loved one?".
First of all, it should be understood that there are no two people who have the same worldview and perception of the world. Consequently, everyone has his own view of the same event. After all, as is known, how many people, so many opinions. Therefore, do not take offense at the partner, if he does not understand something, especially if it seems obvious to you. And on the other hand, if something offends you, you need to speak softly about this beloved person.
Do not start a quarrel from scratch. It is only natural that there is no relationship without quarrels. But you can also use them with profit. It is necessary to extract negative features from the conflict, to identify positive ones and thereby strengthen relations. After all, how you manage to control a conflict is much more important than the content of the conflict itself.
There are several ways to resolve conflicts. These include protection, evasion and discovery. Protection is an opportunity to protect oneself from insults or at best to prevent them. That is, you must remain calm, do not respond aggression to aggression, but also not succumb, because these actions will provoke an intensification of the conflict situation with your loved one. Evasion of conflict should be used in cases where the pressure from the partner is very strong and you either do not maintain it, or you can not control yourself. Therefore, it is best in this case to leave, while the partner does not calm down. And, finally, the opening. Opening allows you to expand communication and learn more not only about your loved one, but also about yourself. This is the best option. After all, when all the defensive walls collapse and the conflict becomes a matter of cooperation, it is then that true intimacy and sincere communication begin.
It is also necessary to be able to listen to a loved one. It is clear that interests can be different. After all, someone is fond of football, and someone is attracted to fashion. But in order not to offend a partner, I repeat, it is necessary to listen to him.
It is very important to learn not to interrupt. Even if you agree with a loved one, listen to it to the end and then express your opinion. After all, as practice shows, very few people want to continue the story after being interrupted.
Care should be taken and sensitivity to the problems and experiences of the partner. When necessary, give it, as they say, "pour out your soul," help with advice or just cheer. That is, in any case, show that you are experiencing no less than himself and are ready to help him.
Separately, it should be said about jealousy. After all, anyone was ever jealous of a loved one. And in these moments, you can talk nonsense, which then you will regret. Therefore, keeping calm should be said about their claims and requests, as well as together to discuss possible solutions and solutions. Then you will become the initiator of bilateral relations, in which the most important principle is a compromise. After all, if you do not understand how to raise your voice, show aggression, and calmly communicate and understand the actions of your loved one, then he will act exactly the same, inspired by your behavior.
Now combine all this together and add the individualities inherent in your relationship, and you will get the perfect strategy for communicating with your loved one. Good luck!