Early age gives the makings of proper communication and behavior towards all other people. This stage passes quickly, it does not allow parents to spend too much time on upbringing. However, after the first hike to school, the children change a lot. They begin to react differently to each word of the parents and, especially, to their advice. A kind of confrontation begins all over the world, which is absent only with the friendly relations of children and close people, which is rare. Peak negative perception of adults begins in adolescence, although the most interesting are the stages of human development from 13 to 22 years.
Children from 13 to 22 years experience one of the most active periods of their lives. It can be conditionally divided into two parts, allowing to see the causes and consequences of all experiences.
High school
The first stage should be considered adolescence. Children go to high school classes, and begin to perceive the whole world from a different point of view.
From the age of 13 the child understands that in the future he will necessarily grow up, and tries to make his own decisions. Parents should never put pressure on children, otherwise relations will become strained. Yes, a teenager does not always make the right choice, but condemnation will only worsen the situation. It is better to try to explain to him other possibilities and let him choose himself.
At the age of 13, there is an active interest in the opposite sex. For this reason, young people begin to take alcohol and smoke. The consequences sometimes become unpleasant, although practice shows that the reason is not upbringing. In fact, in adolescence, all children begin to look around and act the same way. Because of this, alcohol is most interesting for teenagers who see it at home.
Student years
All parents try to understand children from 13 to 22 years old. However, they look at them through the prism of their own love and adoration, trying to make their life better. This becomes an obstacle to an adequate assessment, and in fact it is the most important.
After passing the adolescence, and finishing school, a young man often becomes a student. It would seem that he takes the first steps in society and must ennoble himself, receiving new knowledge. In real life, everything looks different.
Entering a university for a person is an opportunity to leave your parents. Finally, he gets a chance to give up custody and constant supervision. Some "children" rent apartments, others do not spend the night at home. The result is always the same - freedom and fun pastime.
Parents can not change anything, and their interference in the personal life of the child leads only to an exacerbation of numerous disagreements. Up to 22 years do not need to let go of the child, but you need to remember about his independence.
Children from 13 to 22 years of age are difficult to understand, although the secret of success is simple. Try to give your children a little more freedom, so that they feel its taste. In any case, to protect from all dangers and abominations of ordinary life will never succeed, and it is impossible to patronize children throughout life. Just need to remember your desires and behavior in the same years, but do not try to make the child the same. It will only help to understand that in the horrors of modern reality there are still beautiful things, and the child has the right to find them without outside help.