Today I want to tell you about mad love. Love is sacred in this world. But sometimes your incredible love just can not understand. First of all, the one you love so much. Love is on the verge of insanity.
You need to be happy without any doping. Someone needs a dose, someone needs a cigarette. And to someone he. His gaze and you already consider yourself to be the happiest person. And already there is nothing around you. But, when it is not bad for you. You have a breakdown. You call every minute, you want to hear his voice all the time. But the voice in response is cold, distracted by something completely different. At all but you. Obsessive love often rises on the windowsill or swallows sleeping pills. And this dependence. This is the drug.
All his bad words are for your heart, like poison, which poisons you slowly. Until he does not kill at all. But you are patient. You endure this pain. And then, when he asks for forgiveness, you forgive everything. And you're happy again.
For you, he is protection and support, because this is the most expensive person. You are defenseless before him. And you believe in your world, despite the breaking.
Often you hear insulting words that you are sick, crazy, psychotic ... So it is. And this disease is called love.
And all this causes such symptoms, symptoms of disturbed psyche:
- Mood swings
- Anxiety of appetite
- Decrease in working capacity (you can not concentrate on any activity any more)
- Your all talk, only about him because of this there is no full communication with people
- I ceased to watch myself
- Serious problems with work (study)
- Waiting for his call, meeting
And, even if the first beauty madly adores the man, no matter how flattered he is, he tries to stay away from her. Because by nature man is a hunter and he must chase prey, and not vice versa.
When a man seeks, basically, he becomes uninteresting.
So it happens. I experienced this on myself.
It seems that medicines will help here. But nothing will help from such a crazy love.
What is the cause of this disease? Lots of. But mostly it comes from childhood. Maybe my daughter did not get enough love from her father. And she had a distorted impression of men. In general, some psychological trauma.
What you need to do to finally not go insane?
You just love your love, not him!
Take the clock back and see what you had before you fell in love. What were the interests, with whom I was friends ... Remember and remember. Straighten your brain!
Try less to reduce your thoughts to the subject of your adoration.
Write, in the end, everything you aspired to (what was forgotten), attach it to a prominent place and see when you begin to feel sad for it! Try to represent it in the form of a circle and fill it. What you wanted most: a car, an apartment, a well-paid job ...
Do business!
The cure will not happen so quickly. But you have to work on yourself!
Improve your appearance. Then they will pay attention to you. Thus, you will avenge him and increase your self-esteem.
Try to get rid of his things. How would you not like to get rid of them. You have to step over yourself. In extreme cases, ask your friend to do it for you. It will be a pity to tear a teddy bear into pieces, but it's fun!
Live your life and do not give yourself offense.
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