Do you know who the bitch is? What kind of life task does the bitch solve? Why does this label hang on certain people? Some bitch hate, others respect, others are afraid ... Someone scornfully looks at the bitch, and someone secretly dreams of becoming like them ...
For someone, "bitch" - this is almost an insult, but for someone - the best compliment.
So all the same, who is such a bitch? Is it good or bad?
For the first time I asked this question several years ago. Then, even for me, this mysterious word was so exciting and mysterious and very, very much like at least a drop of being a FIRST.
From what I did not know then. I bought a bunch of literature on "bitchiness" and sat down to read. The first acquaintance with books of this kind disappointed me.
These were basically tips for caring for yourself, choosing clothes, make-up, figure correction, gait. Undoubtedly, a bitch should always be on top, but after all, a beautiful well-groomed woman is not a bitch. Bitch is a whole philosophy, it is inside and not outside.
One book in general struck me: at its core, it was a biography of a young girl who was not very beautiful, but she had a bunch of guys. How? She just slept with everyone. This was described for over three hundred pages, plus a couple of tips for caring for yourself at the very end of the book. Are these bitch?
Only one book helped me understand this issue. From the first lines it became clear - it was written by the real bitch. From it I learned a lot of useful information, which corresponded to my ideas about the PRESENT STERVE. Something was useful to me, something was absolutely useless in my case, with something I did not agree. But in general, the book pleased. So, my conclusions:
Bitch:
- respects oneself
- knows what he wants
- knows how to achieve this
- knows how to show oneself
- always in the spotlight
- good in everything!)
I looked at my friends and found among them stervochka. All of them are so different both in age and appearance, in character and way of life, but nevertheless they all had the signs of real bitch.
Alena, 32
Alena is the mother of two wonderful children, she is married for the second time and very successfully. On the contrary, the popular myth is that a bitch is a single woman. Not selfish, always ready to help another, but for children and husband in general is ready for anything. And yet, for some reason at first glance it is clear that she is a bitch.
Bitch, in the best sense of the word. She puts herself like a bitch, she is confident in herself, she has goals, career and she successfully achieves this, even despite the sheer amount of time her family takes from her. By the way, he wants a third child.
She has a lot of friends among men, many admirers, but her husband does not have the slightest reason to doubt her.
Marina, 25
With my friend Marina we have known each other for more than 10 years. I heard from many friends that "Marina is still a bitch." Marina has one goal in life: to have fun. He likes clubs and dances.
She works as a secretary for a minimum salary at the floor, but this does not disappoint her very much. She also works in a nightclub as a dancer, and she has plenty of experience in this business, since she has been dancing since childhood and has often performed in public.
Once I advised her to work as instructors in dance, because she does it and with employment there are no special problems. But not everything is so simple. Marina does not like to LEARN, she loves only to dance. It's too tiring to learn.
With money at my girlfriend of problems almost does not arise. Marinka is a real socialite, she is familiar with most of the young people in our far from poor city, always find who to ask for money or whom to "breed" for a club or dinner in a restaurant.
With guys it is more likely for the sake of sports interest and material necessity. I already lost count of how many they had.
Marina is a great psychologist, I would even say manipulator. She gets it from birth and has been using it successfully for many years. I have watched more than once how, in just a few minutes, she can convince anyone of anything, including me. Oh, those talents would be in the right direction! But he does not like to study and, unfortunately, does not want to ...
Light, 20
We met Svetik quite by accident, and probably just as casually and ran away, if we did not find one amazing thing: we are very similar. We are similar in everything: we like books, films, we like the same music, the same food, and we always have something to talk about. Sometimes we even joke that she's my twin, well, or I'm hers.
Sveta is a very interesting person. Undoubtedly, a bright representative of the detachment of stinkers, besides a desperate nihilist. Lives in a hostel, he studies at a psychologist. She has a purpose in life - to become a professional in her business, but at work she will not miss the entertainment. Has time all. He is very cheerful and cheerful person, what attracts others. Guys until they come across are "not the ones", but especially not in a hurry, she still has everything ahead!
As you can see, around the bitch there arose a lot of myths, which would be a good time to debunk.
1. Bitch is not necessarily a loner, but rather vice versa.
2. Bitch is an egoist, but in moderation. He will never do meanness to his friends, but at the same time, he will not do anything to himself, because she values and respects herself a lot.
3. Bitch - makes a career, but not at the expense of his family. The ability to succeed is one of the main qualities of a real bitch.
4. Bitch - will never swear or scandal (contrary to the prevalent "bitchy" stereotype). She will always find a way out of the situation, so as not to humiliate yourself and others.
5. Bitch - it is not cold and critical, but cheerful and friendly. You want to communicate with such people, and not avoid them. This is the secret of their immense popularity.
6. Bitch is an excellent psychologist, she understands and feels people.
7. Bitch - always watching for yourself and stands out from the crowd.
8. Bitch - she is undoubtedly a queen!
Everyone has his own destiny, his own way .... And to be or not to be a bitch - it's up to you!