If a man says such words to a woman, then there will be no relationship. This is tantamount to saying that you are interesting to me as an interlocutor and no more. The love of a man begins with a sexual attraction. First of all, a woman attracts her appearance, and if from the very beginning she does not, then she will not. And it's foolish to spend time and energy on this person. There is no sense in deceiving ourselves. For a self-respecting lady, these relationships are offensive.
If the guy said let's be friends
Do not be discouraged if it sounds strange and stupid to you, because at first glance, bad always leads to a better. Probably, this is not your man and how would you not rest on it, but having left you, he freed a place for the most worthy, loving and real man. He understood this before you, that's why he withdrew. Do not need to return it, do not cling to it. The pain will pass, it is needed so that you will not make any mistakes again and be slightly more cautious. In the meantime, you will calm down, analyze, think and make your conclusions. Do not blame yourself that he did not become a man of your life. You do not need to become a Snow Queen with an icy heart, he is not worthy of it.
Kink with your head into the work, this is a proven method that helps to get rid of bad thoughts. Even if he comes back, by that time you will have feelings for him or a new hobby will appear.
Take a trip somewhere. It can be a trip to a picnic or to a neighboring city, or a fashionable tour to an exotic country, or a round-the-world trip that will distract you from unpleasant thoughts about it.
Go in for sports. This means intense sports, this is the best way to get rid of all the nonsense and unwind.
Find a new hobby for yourself, it can be advanced training courses, extreme driving, macrame and so on. Do not sit idly for a minute and who knows, maybe this new hobby will have a useful role in your future life.
And do you know what is trivial for you? It's taking care of yourself. Take with tripled energy and do a manicure, face masks, dance for half an hour in front of a mirror in the most beautiful underwear, turn on relaxing music and take baths with sea salt and herbs. Do not listen to a single song that will remind you of it, throw away all the rubbish and dried flowers. Nothing like this should remain to remind you of the ex-beloved. Thus, quickly "your wounds will heal." Just throw yourself into the whirlpool of life. To recover a little, you will need about a month. Drive away the dead-end thoughts that he will understand who has lost and will return to you. This does not help, he has an impression of you and he will not give up on him.
Finally, you can add - look around, the world is so beautiful, and what you are now experiencing is only a little temporary difficulties, you will soon overcome them and you will remember this with a smile. Rejoice that she divorced you with such a person. Your heart will necessarily be visited by true love and the person who will be with you will be the best man for you.