There are many reasons for the destruction of foreign relations. To some, this destruction simply brings pleasure. Someone envies that everything is much simpler in creating foreign relations. And someone just wants someone else's feelings was not. But, in any case, such destruction has a consequence. In other people's emotions, we do not notice much. To create a relationship with someone, it is necessary to understand whether it is advisable at all to do something.
What can cause us to destroy what someone has built. The first thing that perhaps comes to mind is envy. Yes, this feeling is the impetus for a person to want to spoil what was being built by others. It begins as a child. When children build sand castles, some run and destroy others, as their own outlets are not so beautiful. Then such people grow up, but the desire to spoil what they did not themselves do not disappear. This leads to the fact that someone spoils life for others. In this case there is no justification for such behavior. And if a person notices that he is envious and therefore tries to spoil someone's friendship, the only way out is self-analysis and the ability to change everything in himself. When the feeling of envy appears in the soul, the only way out is the ability to analyze yourself. And do not try to understand why others are better. You just need to understand what we are doing wrong and what exactly led to this situation. Often, it is our own behavior that causes the fact that life does not develop. We make so many mistakes that can be changed and become better. We must remember that we are not loved, until we feel it to ourselves. Therefore, you just need to try to eradicate the shortcomings. If the envy provokes that someone is more beautiful, and therefore love it, you need to take care of yourself. There are different ways. This includes hiking, aerobics and fitness, hairdressing and cosmetic centers. Of course, you can just envy that someone is more beautiful. But it will not lead to anything. And spoiled relations between people will not make anyone happy. Even if it seems that, spoiling the lives of others, one's own becomes better, a sense of pleasure, in fact, will last only a few days. Then the euphoria will pass and again there will be a feeling of insignificance and anger at the sight of those who live better and happier. Therefore, if the feelings of others cause envy, rather than destroying them, it is better just to make yourself smarter, prettier, more feminine or more courageous. And then the world will be more pleasant, and life - happier.
Another reason for the destruction of others' relationships is the understanding that people are deceived and offended. In this case, on the contrary, we are guided by the most beautiful feelings, but we are not always understood. It is worth remembering that when a person loves, he can not listen to sound thoughts, even if they are much more adequate than the behavior of this person. In this case, do not force a person to quit and start another life. Violence can not change anything here and does not help. When a person is forcibly forced to do something, he, on the contrary, wants to protest. Even if in the depths of their hearts these people understand that they are wrong, their feelings begin to make them do so as to counteract others. Therefore, one should not force people to abandon, forget and fall out of love. You do not need to be the one who takes away from the person his own desires and dreams. On the contrary, it is simply necessary to show a person in comparison that other people are better than those who are close. When he sees everything on examples, but does not think that you are trying to prove something to him, over time he will change his attitude. In such situations, you do not need to break the relationships of others and tell how bad the one who is with them. It is just necessary to influence precisely him and show him exactly that he will become better and happier if he stops these relations. Not everyone notices how love destroys them. Only the ability to show a better life often enough helps us understand that our love does not always bring happiness. You need to be an intelligent and calm person who has the patience to slowly but surely convince someone and remind you what is the main meaning of life. And for what it is not necessary to spoil your nerves and suffer. In fact, every person knows how to make mistakes. And then, in time, such people thank those who have long, but confidently pulled them out of meaningless relationships. But when a person is taken forcibly, he still tries to return, because he refused all this not independently.
Well, the last reason that can serve to destroy relationships is love. Sometimes we love the wrong people and believe that they should be with us, not with someone they chose. In this case, you need to learn to control not your own selfishness, but love. After all, as you know, true love always lets go, even if a person is too expensive. Therefore, when you understand. That your loved one is really happy, you should never ruin a relationship. Nobody has yet built happiness on someone else's misfortune. Therefore, it is not necessary to think naively that you will be loved after the relationship with another person has been destroyed. In such situations, you just need to let go and live on. This will be the best way out.