Virtual sex: is it worth it?

The Internet allowed people to have sex almost on an industrial scale, depriving them of all barriers. But let's move a little from reflection and try to find out what people think about this phenomenon.
Fate quite often separates lovers, such is life - business trips, shift work, banal work in different companies, not allowing to spend all day together. But if before all the romance was in postal correspondence and rare calls on Fridays, today the Internet of the Internet allows you to see a lover even at a distance of thousands of kilometers from each other. This, naturally, entailed the emergence of "Wirth" (virtual sex), and it should be noted that among modern youth this phenomenon is quite common.

Actually, what's wrong with that? The day is long, the work is boring, and ICQ and social networks at work have been forgotten. After all, it's fun to sit in the workplace: around a crowd of colleagues, sometimes even annoying customers run up, and you sit in front of a monitor on which passions, worthy not just that of Shakespeare, but even a stereotypical German film of the mid-90s! A serious face, fingers on the keys running around ... that's just a shine in his eyes and a fairly bitten curl of hair in his mouth betrays the truth.

At first everything seems insanely interesting, funny and terribly fun, but then you begin to understand that all this virtuality is really very real! Let nothing happen from the side - only letters fly between the two computers by wires and air, but after all in the head everything is as if no one is around, as if there is a night in the yard, a dim light is burning in the room, and two people, embraced by passion, that one day the morning will come.

Pros and cons of virtual contacts
People who are drawn into virtual sex, sooner or later it becomes clear that he does not really differ from real sex, because the emotions experienced by virtual lovers are quite real. Everyone thinks about how to make the partner more pleasant, how to show oneself in the best light and quite accurately represents what is happening on the screen. So what's the difference? In the absence of physical contact? But is it really weight, if the main "action" occurs in the head?

In addition, virtual sex allows you to have an almost unlimited number of partners, because the Internet is truly a huge network, and people in it, for the most part, are not familiar with each other. A mixture of these factors leads to the fact that people open up during Wirth is much better than during real sex, because there are no factors that keep us from messy connections in reality. Lasciviousness? "We just correspond." Complexes? "He does not know me anyway". Dissatisfaction with your appearance? "I'll send him a photo from some site."

The opinion of the sexes about virtual sex
The interviewed girls in the majority approve approximately the following: "Virtual sex is something more weighty than a random night with a stranger from the club, because it touches thoughts and soul. In addition, virtual betrayal, perhaps, can be even more weighty than real, just for the same reasons. "

The guys on this issue have a slightly different opinion, which, however, is not alien to the original "male logic". The majority of the interviewed guys consider virtual sex as meaningless pampering (as well as watching porn), but the question: "Ie. you do not mind if your girlfriend will deal with them with strangers? ", answer briefly and clearly:" Against! " Let him just try! ".

Virtual love is evil?
Let's sum up a little: virtual sex allows people to be liberated and discover secret desires that are difficult to realize in real life. However, you will hardly like to write over and over again, who and where you kiss and where you want to conduct the language - a person is arranged so that he always wants more. Sooner or later there will be an irresistible temptation not to write, but to do what you think about, and at that moment you will understand how serious everything is. In addition, only in reality you can be sure that Lucien is so coveted - it's not Lyuska from the next office, and Margot is not a strange neighbor with a fur-lined back and excess weight centners.

In any case, it's even a little sad that such a subtle feeling, which has become an integral part of human history, gradually leaves the Net - there is enough debauchery and rudeness, maybe it's worth leaving love in the real world?