Can sex take pleasure in sleep ?
And how! According to inexorable statistics, every third woman is the strongest orgasm experienced in a dream. During this period, the brain is freed from shackles and limitations. What in reality would cause a feeling of shame, restraint, forbidden by morality and hostel norms or unacceptable partner - it is absolutely possible to rise from the sky. Do what you want, and no one will judge you, except yourself. In the phase of fast sleep, "blue stockings" and "gray mice" turn into Cleopatra and Aphrodite, fairy princesses and heroines of porn films.
In general, ladies with virtual sex were more fortunate. Men are much more likely to have erotic scenes. The peak of dreams falls on a 20-year-old. However, these dreams are "gross" - more action, less emotion. Tactile sensations in the phase of sleep are weakly expressed, so men are mostly content with the visual component. It turns out some porn film with the main character in the role of "selfish." Not many men can remember if they experienced an orgasm, or not.
Women are known to love ears. Therefore, sex scenes are not limited to sexual intercourse. Ladies' dreams represent fireworks of emotions, sensual experiences, kisses, preludes. In real life, women are able to test up to 20 orgasms in a row. Men are only one, lasting 5-10 seconds. Chemeudivljatsya that in a dream, men do not even have time to fix - there was an orgasm or not. Women have much more time to enjoy.
Do you feel shy ?
For some reason, most women and men do not have a husband or wife, a roommate or a mistress as sleeping partners in their dreams, but strangers: colleagues at work, neighbors, acquaintances, movie characters, media characters, etc. This fact will involuntarily cause shyness and questions to itself: maybe I do not like my husband? Maybe I secretly want Washu from the Housing office? What can I say about strange dreams with mythical creatures and heroes of anime, different love or group sex ?!
Psychologists have long studied this problem and have come to the conclusion that such dreams should not be shy. If the partner is dreaming of another girl, this absolutely does not mean that he secretly dreams of treason. Do not be jealous of your virtual sexual partners! It turns out that in the brain the brain analyzes the information that has come in and not just puts events on the shelves of memory, but also simulates possible situations. Since sex is the strongest motivating instinct, sexual feelings also participate in modeling situations - but only as an instrument. For example, at work there was an interaction with some person: you drew attention to it, or there was a conflict, or an uncompleted affair was posted on it. In a dream, the brain can begin to analyze the situation that has arisen, to simulate various options for interaction. Including andsexual nature, even if this typchik you do not like. That is, sex in a dream is only one of the tools for analyzing the situation.
However, there are dreams that reveal serious emotional experiences, complexes and even pathologies. If you regularly have sex with violence, unacceptable situations like incest and what's more pohlesche - this is an urgent reason to contact the psychologist. Otherwise, the internal conflict, driven into the subconscious, can develop into a chronic depression and even a mental illness.
How to model a dream in sleep
In order to have a dream, there are several practical methods. The first is psychological. A dream, this is a world completely and without doubt in our power. We are the Gods of Sleep and its main characters. Awareness of this fact is the key to modeling situations in a dream. If we know that we are sleeping, then we can turn the storyline in our favor. True, it does not always turn out.
The second method is the training of conscious awareness skills. There are certain methods that allow oneself to order dreams with a desired plot. Such courses are becoming popular with us. However, medicine is cautious about this practice. Dreams of sensation and storyline overshadow the gray routine of real life. And in some people trying to take control over sleep, dreams in the form of visions begin to manifest themselves in real life. And this is a serious delusional mental disorder, nothing better than a fever.
The third way is physiological. Many women sleep on their nails. However, sleep on the abdomen makes breathing difficult. It becomes intermittent, like breathing during violent sex. During the phase of fast sleep, in the brain, intermittent breathing can be associated with sexual intercourse, forming the corresponding visions. So if you want to have sex, try to fall asleep on your stomach.